Helping People grow!

Keep growing an improving, while they watch and criticize, you grow so much that they will hardly recognise you as you shine on their darkness.

Wake up keen to get into the new day.
 
Decide to be happy before you wake up!
See the new day as a new adventure.
See the new day as a time to right wrongs.
See the new day as a time for reflection and change.
See the new day as new opportunities yet to be found.
See the new day as an opportunity to make new friends.
See the new day as a chance to look for new changes in your life and to remove old things that are not working for you any more.
 
Aug 18, 2018 2:22pm

In 1887 Anne Sullivan became the governess of a young girl names Helen Keller.

Helen had been left blind and deaf by a childhood illness, but Anne started teachings and little Helen started learning.

Anne became known as ‘The Miracle Worker’ but she knew that Helen’s improvements were not a miracle at all. It was the result of dedication, perseverance, and good old fashioned hark work. Anne noted, “People seldom see the halting and painful steps by which real success is achieved.”

If you’ve been impatient for your own success, remember that your giant leap forward may be preceded by a lengthy succession of short, halting steps. But keep the faith, keep working, and keep taking those steps, even if they are small ones.
If you do the results may just be miraculous. Love is the divine quality that everywhere produces and restores life. To each and every one of us, it gives the power of working miracles if we will. – Lydia M. Child.
My heart took delight in all my work.
– Hugs.

The Story:

A crow is flying around on an abnormally hot summer day looking for water. He comes across a pitcher of water, but when he tries to stick his beak in he can’t reach the water. He tries and tries, slowly getting more dehydrated.

He’s about to give up and accept his fate when he has an idea: he drops small pebbles in the pitcher until the water level rises to the point where he can reach it.

The Lesson:

Where there’s a will, there’s a way. Persistence is the key to solving any problem you have because eventually — even if the situation seems dire — you WILL find a solution.

Your idea might not be as bad as you think it is, and is just in need of some iteration. Whatever it is that you want to do, just keep plugging away. Please remember, “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”

– Author Unknown.

A Heavenly married man and a woman are entwined together in the spirit of love.

They look to one another for help. They look to be with one another for there is much deep spiritual caressing of their souls when they are within arms reach. This love is tender, it knows no harshness, only the gentleness of the leaf drifting to the ground that is how their love is, they float, coast, and fall, deeper and deeper in love – and it never ends, not even after their worn human bodies tire of this planet.

True love lasts all day when love is together spiritually in all things that they do. Even doing the dishes is special because best-friends can wash and dry in agreeable companionship. Fun, laughter, comments, a wink here and there, a causal knowing smile. A tickling match, with both falling in bouts of laughter and giggling. Serious times. Prayers side by side. At times tears side by side. Like the glorious beauty of flowers of the fields marriage is an event that blooms and blooms between two forever, maturing with the years, two become one, closer and closer together spiritually each and every day.
Together is heaven on earth, being apart is pain.

They make plans, discuss, play together, think together, play together, teach their own young together, share together, care together, support each other in all things that they do. Togetherness is everything.

They put their family, friends and parents out of their new family so as not to cause interference. Old family, friends and all are important but now as outsiders because marriage has new best friends, he and she. This is something blessed and new and only between those two who have been chosen to become one.

He walks with her pleased that she is at his side. She walks with him feeling the same, knowing she never will need to look for more because he is hers and she is his – ownership made in Heaven – God’s blessing to mankind, first the planet, the plants, the wildlife and fishes and then the mate – he for her and she for him. Genuine marriage, the greatest gift of all!
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
August 19, 2012 at 3:34 PM.

Our life is a prison when we are so worried about what other people will think of a choice that we want to make that is deep in our heart. What a sad thing that we let other peoples opinions and fear of what they think ,destroy our innermost heartfelt dreams.

How could a person love themself when they toss aside their dreams for other peoples nonsense.

All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
November 1, 2013.

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How hope, progress and new ideas are killed:
It is not in the budget.
Who thought of that!
We tried that before.
We are not ready for it yet.
Not timely.
Too hard to administer.
Too theoretical.
Doesn’t conform to our policy.
Takes too much time.
Takes too much work.
Let’s wait and see.
Let’s form a committee.
Has anyone ever tried it?
What you are saying is…

– Author Unknown.

It Is Not What Happens To You It Is How You Respond To It


• Life is 10% of what happens and 90% of how you react to it.
• “I am responsible. Although I may not be able to prevent the worst from happening, I am responsible for my attitude toward the inevitable misfortunes that darken life. Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have – life itself.” – Walter Anderson.

I was talking to  friend about when my father died a year or so back. My mother had died a few years before.

My father was into drugs, was a narcissist, chauvinist, alcoholic, used to beat mother, and basically was a character I very much disliked. He once told us when we were young that he wanted nothing to do with us children (me and my 6 sisters) until we could party with him and get stoned etc.

I used to drink, even did the party scene for a while, but have always hated drugs. Dad would grow his own drugs, he was a person who I really didn’t want to be myself.

Dad had many vintage Harley Davidsom motorcycles, where they are now I have no idea. The earliest one was a 1917 Harley Davidson. He also had 40 acres of native bush land up in Whangarei that would be worth a fortune when Dad passed away. Dad had many tools and other stuff, and probably money as well.

My friend was shocked when I told him that I received nothing when Dad died. The reason was that dad and I didn’t get on for decades. I didn’t hate him, but I didn’t like him, or what he was like as a father, or his drug habits, domestic violence and so on. He is still fondly liked in Tokoroa where I live, because a lot of people didn’t know the real man, they only knew the image Dad gave to people.

In order to get what was in Dad’s Will I would have had to be like him, someone he could get stoned with, party with, treat women with disrespect and so on – and those things are just not me, so I was unable to be the son that he always wanted, and to him I am sure, I was a failure, the son that he did not want. Dad did not have a conscience, and I guess he was disappointed that I did have a conscience.

The point that I am making, is that to be a part of his Will as his only son, I would have had to be like him for many decades. So, when Dad died I already knew that I was not in his Will, so I was not surprised, but many others were.

And I have no regrets for being who I am and refusing to be like Dad. I wouldn’t have taken all the money int he world to be like my father or my mother were, neither were good parents and both lived only for themselves.

I didn’t cry when either died, because I didn’t like either of them because of how they were as people and how they treated us children. I was disappointed that they were not better parents, and I prayed for them. But I have never missed them because there was nothing to miss.

Its sad to some degree, but I learned years ago, that just because people are related biologically, they still don’t have to be people who you love, or like, or get on with – they are jsut people who are related to you and your family – whats really important is who they are, how they treat you and their real-character, the character that only the family see, their real person who they are.

One day I imagined I was not related to either of my parents and I asked myself, “If I met them in life, would I ever be a friend of theirs?” and I realised that I would never have been a friend of the character that mother or father were, or some of my other relations.

Just because people are family does not mean that they love us, or will treat us with empathy, compassion and be good to us – and if we discover that they don’t treat us well it should be our free right to walk away from such people. Life is a lot nicer without people who don’t treat us with respect and who are not of the character we are.

I was just watching a video about a guy who showed in other videos a singing group who were basically faking a live performance. An aunt wrote to him and was upset that he exposed them. People had asked him to check out the group because many found it hard to believe that they were so pitch perfect in what appeared to be a random recording done in a house. He showed that the sound had been manipulated afterwards and that the singers had re-sung parts of the song where they went off-key or whatever, and the new singing parts inserted in the video to make them sound perfect.

Previously he had shown in Tyler Swift concerts she had not sung parts because in the recordings from concert to concert her voice was exactly the same (such as in high notes) – thus she was deceiving paying concert goers who thought that all of the concerts were live when some of then were prerecorded and Swift is lip-syncing.

If we want an honest world we should support and protect people who are exposing fruad or who are dishonest. I mean, how can we get an honest world for future generations if we know about corruption and say nothing.

It completely amazes me about the huge amount of corruption Elon Musk has found and the many people who hate him for it or are putting him down or trying to stop him, but thankfully he continues.

It should not matter who the person is, where they come from and so on, it should matter that there are people who are sometimes risking their own safety to make the world aware of dishonesty and so on.

Life for us all only gets better when we become good or better people, and we have the courage to back up and support good people who are exposing dishonesty, abuse, crime, and corruption.