Recognize the people around you for who they are.

In order to recognise that we are being treated with respect we need to know what respect is, and also we need to recognise the people around us’s characters, who is this and that, because all people assume that they are good, nice, compassionate and have empathy, but many are actually narcissists and manipulators, some even fake their own character to themselves.

Know your own needs, wishes, wants, and be sure that what you want is not what people are using against you, such as you want a happy God Blessed marriage, therefore a manipulator can simple act-out the worthy husband to you.

Thus, we want around us people who treat others with respect, regardless of their status, they simply are respectful because they know how others can live and that we are all reacting good or bad to the life that was dished out to us.

Those who are honest and keep their word means that we know where we stand with honest people, those who lie to us confuse life, they confuse us, and we never really know if they are telling us the truth after we have caught them out lying.

Those around you do they show kindness and empathy, especially to those who are vulnerable, innocent and need help.

Good people take responsibility for their own actions instead of blaming others, this helps us know that when we get in to an argument with this person then he or she will stand up and accept that they made a mistake, and they reassure us honestly that we did not do wrong and they take the full blame for their own deeds.

How are their manners, such as when listening, do they listen without interrupting, do they say “please” and “thank you,” and being considerate, do they act out caring to everyone or just to people who they know – remember the Good Samaritan, helping even strangers shows very good character. Please remember, life is not fair, and it is us humans who have the power and intelligence that makes life fair, our genuine kindness to the fallen really does count for a lot in removing the evil in the world and replacing it with genuine love and care for others.

The humble, avoid being arrogant or showing off. People who like being the attention are playing to the crowd, thus the crowd controls them, as they are only satisfied when the crowd is satisfied with them, thus they try harder to make people like them, accept them, and if you are close to such a person then he or she can make your life miserable because once you show you care with you subconsciously they know that they don’t need to try anymore, but tot he public they will always keep trying, thus you are put in to second place.

Good people are not perfect, they still get angry but they are slow to anger, thus if you drag them through the mud and they suffer long enough they will surely get very angry with you and you deserve it.

Good people try to always exercise self-control, staying calm and respectful even when frustrated, tested by the foolish, or when angry.

Most important good people help others without expecting praise or something in return, its all about making the other persons life better, not rewards.