Helping People grow!

Some people who follow God get misery because they come to a conclusion that is wrong, but nothing God nor others tell that person can change that persons’ mind. So, to show the person that they are making a mistake or have made a mistake he or she now must live/experience the misery for a while to finally understand that it was a mistake, and then move on this time much the wiser.

Tokoroa – South Waikato
Some History of the local area.
Tokoroa – New Zealand.

All of us at some time want something very much, and then get it and find out that it was a bad thing, the wrong life, the wrong partner, misery, but before we get it we thought nothing was better.
It is wise to live by experience and common sense, but it is also wise to take good advice and follow it and avoiding miserable long-term experiences that could have been avoided, don’t doubt your gut feelings, notice the red-flags and warnings, life is not a fairytale, there is no fairy god mother, make your choices based on what you want and then take action and make them come true.

If you have an accuser and you know that you are innocent but the accuser won’t face you, face to face, then it is clear that the accuser is not being honest, because they have nothing to lose except to prove their truth. We all go through this. Someone tells stories about someone and people believe it without asking the accused what their side of the story is, and the accusers will only attack from safety, from a distance – to anyone who has to listen to these false accusers it is obvious that they are being false because they won’t come face to face to you.

If the accusers have nothing to worry about because they are telling the truth then they will have no fear of seeing you face to face with witnesses. What I am saying is that when you hear stories, even if the story may seem convincing, before being convinced it is wise to hear all the information to get the whole story. You could make a decision that could totally change your life simply because you listened to people who were deliberately trying to lead you astray. The false accusers are like snakes whispering in your ear, but never having the courage to face the person that they are always talking badly about.

As with all things, do your own investigations if you are ever suspicious of what you have been told, and really one shouldn’t listen to gossip or stories from people who won’t say it in front of the person that they are talking about. Another thing is to follow your instincts. Pray about issues and follow God’s lead. Remember in all things put God before everyone and everything, and follow that advice first.

All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
November 1, 2011.

If The Words Don’t Add Up, It’s Usually Because The Truth Wasn’t Included In The Equation.

At least not the whole truth.

“Some of the truth” makes the lie look reasonable or believable, and can also make a person (who receives and believes the lies) on a total different life direction than if that person had got the real truth in the beginning.

It is not wise to trust again people who didn’t give you the whole truth, because you never know what they will omit from the truth in the future – and remember, if they lied to you back then, well they thought very little of you, your intelligence, and if they continue to lie to you now, they still think low of your intelligence and they think that you are stupid – please don’t prove them right.

All the best from

James M Sandbrook.

Hope.

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