Narcissists, even Narcissist couples, love a submissive person who agrees with everything they say.
A mans desire for a woman who can cook is based on the male character – he would work all day outside, come in very hungry for warmth, food, rest and maybe sex. Its all natural, yet is seen today as evil, selfish and such because feminism took away the mans natural need to protect, help, work for and care for his wife and children.
My ex:
“What you said was…!”
And you stare at the Narcissist and say, “I didn’t say that.” and then they twist, mangle, and hack at your mind until you collapse and say that you said it because you doubt yourself and what you say.
What I say to them is, “I didn’t say that, what I said was…!” probably having to repeat it 5 times. And then at the end of the conversation I stubbornly cling to exactly what I said because I know that the Narcissist will win and use and abuse my mind if I give in, so I refuse and stand my ground preferring to die than back down.
Once you are not afraid of dying nor losing thsoe you love, they lose their control over you, because the fears they put inside you control you, keep you submissive and pandering to their will, just like a puppet on a string.
Maturity is showing them the door when they treat you bad. Its the step to freedom.
Your vanity is Satan’s tool, your Pride is Satan’s tool, your ego is Satan’s tool, all used against you so that God’s plans cannot happen.
When we care how children are brought up and how we want them to think for themselves and not be groomed, then we can be called lunatic or obsessive because we want the opposite to those who are grooming and brainwashing children, its madness. Let the child decide as an adult, not tell them what to think, how to live, and how to behave as a child.
About Big-Tech companies and how they use social media to make us think or affect how we think as a mass of people. Algorithms and Social Media control, and if the workers don’t like you they change the math and you get few people visiting your social media.
https://youtu.be/JA9cBiyfd5s
Life with God is a life of goodness, life without God is a life of evil, its that simple,
Follow God means live a humble decent moral life, all else is Satanic.
What gets me the most about the virus is that in previous mass vaccinations the vaccination had a direct effect on the virus, and the public thought that this vaccination would as well, they trusted the science. But sadly it was shown that the vaccination had little or no affect on the people who took them, so what was the point of vaccinating themselves with an injection with contents that would not be known for 70 years – if they are up front we should know the contents now, right now.
In fact MI5, CIA, FBI and medical investigators should go into Pfizer’s offices and get the contents list to show the world and if need be take the company to court and jail the owners.
There is no justice here, why, because the companies made huge financial gains and the governments made huge tax gains. Even if millions of people die with some connection tot he vaccinations the money gained is far more important than the sacrifices made.
In my view, now that the pharmaceutical companies have seen the success of Covid you cn be sure that in around 5-10 years time when they desire another financial boost Covid will reappear in all its destructive glory and the big companies will come forth with a vaccination (of no value at all) that governments will pay billions of dollars for.
You see, for me, I can’t understand where the vicious version of the virus went?? The vaccinations had no affect, yet as if planned they disappeared and weaker versions thus did appear, and then it all conveniently peters-out until its gone, only to rear its ugly head in the future. Nature does not plan such things in such perfect order when Covid was chaos, but people can plan such things in such a way, and profit from them heavily.
People usually don’t like have to answer questions… liar or not,
The only one truth is the truth that each individual believes.
For many, being under stress causes them to be so upset they vomit.
Friends are better than parents, because it means that we love each other because we want to…
Understand mental health and the positive recoveries that genuine love and compassion…
My father and mother were not good parents, both bad examples of parenting.
To gain the desire to live again is to start from where you are right now.
Tokoroa is much the same. People are really wanting change though.
Everyone is preparing for Winter, already Autumn is getting cold, wet and windy. It may be a rainy cold Winter this year.
I had a knee operation to clear cartilage and am recovering and looking for work, but what there is going is not suited for my knee (I don’t want to injure it again) or it is something I can’t do due to lack of education. Not much work in Tokoroa at the moment.
Tuesday, 12 April 2016, 9:43:23 AM.
Today I came across a young woman who has for about a year avoided me like the plague. She was obviously a victim of the lies and rumors put out by the character assassinators who tried desperately to make me look bad publicly by lying and spreading rumors and gossip.
To my complete and total surprise this young female was very nice to me as made an attempt to be friendly. It took me totally by surprise. I hope I didn’t seem rude to her.
I have been aware of the character assassination attempts for a long time now and because of this I keep well away from young females in town because they are so easily led, some are vain, and it seems that young females (especially blondes) were the main targets because it is so easy to install fear in their minds and panic, as well as the fact that they spread gossip and rumors at great speed. The feminists tricked these young females for a reason. .
Only last week a family of blonde females were nice to me. They too, had avoided me for a long time. Obviously taken in by the lies, gossipers and rumors, and finally something must have happened to wake them up from the lies so that they have finally seen the truth.
The two greatest subjects I have written about narcissists, and gossipers. The character assassination came from female feminists narcissists, in particular a short-haired blonde feminist. And gossip was her weapon of choice, as well as being the weapon of choice of the gullible girls and the feminist business women in our town.
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What attacks us that does not kill us we learn from. We become experts from observing the liars tactics, we also find out why they need to be nasty, and we realise that it has nothing to do with the victim, but completely it is about the fears of the narcissists.
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My enemies were my teachers, and their loss and attacks made me stronger because I want to see my name cleared.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Sunday, 1 May 2016, 10:07:33 PM.
To make good choices we need to be able to stop the clutter going on in our head…
One of the reasons that I believe that “my time has not come” and that God keeps me on an extremely low income is to show people that while I may speak harshly about their business practices, their sins, their lifestyle and how society is run, that it is I they is at their mercy, not the other way around.
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In a small town like the one I live in when helping people with stress, guilt, shame, depression etc I learn a lot of people’s secrets. If I were to speak up and name, names, there would be much trouble, but I don’t. Because I believe in repair and not punishment, so does God.
What I wanted to do here, and I still do, is to teach people how to become responsible, confident, honest, decent etc. This would create a good decent honest people and society.
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Look at the life of Jesus. He knew all that was needed to know to change the world, but did Jesus use that knowledge to become the king of a nation, or try to rule an army, or to have riches? No.
He is our example. At least Jesus is the correct example for people “so truly want to be good decent people”.
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I have no power on earth.
I have extremely little money.
I have no car.
I am at the mercy of those who control the Councils, banks, etc.
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My goal is to help people become more inclined towards the value of their spiritual self. People like this don’t lust, they don’t crave money or being selfish.
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When a child grows up outside in nature everyday, enjoys good company, learns from his or her parents, and soaks in nature by being there and doing things, the child is less materialistic minded.
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But brought up in schools with books, paper work, small doses of nature, lectures, unspiritual science, sex education, physical sports, competition, for some smoking, sex and drugs etc, all materialism and a far distance from our inner child, out inner soul etc.
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The classroom is unnatural, the grass, trees, fields etc are all natural. This is what we need to gain courage, confidence and life’s important experiences that will carry us and protect us our whole lives.
There is a New Zealand song called Dance All Around The World, and in the song they suggest to the guards to leave their posts and experience life, and they suggest that the tutors (teachers do the same), and they do once they see the logical side of the suggestion.
But in the modern society you mention to the authorities that a classified rat poison banned in many places world wide may be dangerous to us in our local water supply and the authorities get upset. These are the type of people who need to reform their minds to the more important things in life,.
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Life is a struggle when you have so much good to give, so many teachings that will change a life, and benefit a whole society.
But the current society is frightened of change, frightened of losing its power, frightened of reforming the world.
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Time will tell. Will I be around for that 🙂
Time will tell 🙂
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Wednesday, 16 March 2016, 4:45:10 AM.
Jeremiah Chapter 29, verse 11: For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
God has a plan for us. God is good and by being good God must judge evil and chastise us when we go astray. Always be aware that God cannot support you while you are doing evil. That is not God’s way. God will forgive you and try to teach you not to do evil. An understanding of what is evil is a good study for any follower of God. God must judge evil because He loves us.
When things are going wrong in our life we may think that God is not with us but He is. We may feel that life is unfair but we are only feeling put out and hard done by, with sympathy for our own self we can judge our own situation up wrong and also judge God and tell God how to do things. If we follow our own thoughts and judgments then we will go astray and it will hurt in many ways.
God had a plan for Israel, they got away from God. God has a plan for you, stay with God. We too if not careful can be in captivity like Israel was. We should all want to be in God’s plan because that is where safety and security is. We have a future with God. We have slavery and punishment if we follow Satan’s plan for us.
Some people can read the Bible, talk of God’s ways, and yet not be a believer in action. This is being in captivity in a sense as well. Captured in their own beliefs and believing that they are in God’s ways but refuse to step up and keep learning. Walk the walk, not just talk the talk. We may fail but we must keep on.
Walking in God’s ways is walking in the light. A life that has purpose can only be in God’s plan for us. This world is empty and void of true meaning if we live without God in our lives. God’s plan is always good for you and I, but we must live in the plan, not live with one foot in the plan and the other outside in Satan’s plan. Eventually it will catch up with us and we will realize it when it is too late.
Genesis Chapter 50, verse 19-21: And Joseph said unto them, Fear not: for am I in the place of God? But as for you, ye thought evil against me; but God meant it unto good, to bring to pass, as it is this day, to save much people alive.
Now therefore fear ye not: I will nourish you, and your little ones. And he comforted them, and spake kindly unto them.
Self pity does not help us in the trials of life. We must be strong. We must submit to God’s will even if we don’t understand it, even if we may feel some fears. Submitting is listening and then being led the right way, down the right path.
Psalm 32, verse 8: I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye.
God has a plan for each and every one of us, submit and know His plan for your life. God’s plan for your life is personal, that walk is only between God and you. God’s plan is real, it is detailed and strong in the Word and His ways. Expect to change, expect all things in your life to become new, expect blessings because they will be a result of the good work of the dedicated.
Psalm Chapter 143. verse 7-10: Hear me speedily, O LORD: my spirit faileth: hide not thy face from me, lest I be like unto them that go down into the pit.
Cause me to hear thy lovingkindness in the morning; for in thee do I trust: cause me to know the way wherein I should walk; for I lift up my soul unto thee.
Deliver me, O LORD, from mine enemies: I flee unto thee to hide me.
Teach me to do thy will; for thou art my God: thy spirit is good; lead me into the land of uprightness.
God will show us the way to walk. God is good all the time. Be not guided by your confusions, nor the confusions of the lost, that will simply mean that you are lost with them. You will be thinking that you follow God while you go round and round in circles following the lost. There are no blessings, fruit or value in following the spiritually blind.
Isaiah Chapter 58, verse 11: And the LORD shall guide thee continually, and satisfy thy soul in drought, and make fat thy bones: and thou shalt be like a watered garden, and like a spring of water, whose waters fail not.
God’s plan for us is continuous, and blessings show for those who follow God’s plan. Jonah was given a plan, God told Jonah what to do and Jonah ran from God and His plan. And all Jonah got for his efforts was punishments and then finally he came back to God and did God’s will. How many times do we see people do this. Jonah wouldn’t listen, are we listening to God now?
We can hold on to Pet Sins and that will keep us distanced from God. Sins that we don’t want to let go of. Sins that we enjoy and even though we know that we shouldn’t we still hang on to them. We msut let go and keep improving forward in life and self improvement.
We can hang on to the things of the world. The pull of the fast life and the excitements that we once new. They can be a rope around our soul anchoring us in the old ways, pulling us back slowly to defeat.
We can look in the wrong places.
And we may be afraid to genuinely submit our life to God and trust God with all our heart and soul. Without repentance, and full submission God cannot fully help us. Don’t go half the way, go all the way you will never regret it.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
17th of March 2013.
This is about grief, but it can be also about learning a truth.
Thinking about mistakes and how they can make us feel unhappy.
What an interesting experiment to take a country of people and create schools to teach those students to hunger for academic degrees and self-centered success.
They have been brainwashed for many years since infants, pre-schooling, kindergarten, school etc. School is the perfect place to gather many innocents away from their parents protection and fill the child’s mind with the ways of the Overlords.
The Overlords are in control seeing that the people think that they are satisfied.
A system has been created. A person is born, and to fit into society as an accepted member this new person must live the path that is approved by the Overlords.
The people, the masses, they are taught to accept this path, and because they accept this path, they must teach the same path to their children.
The people must all fit into the rules of the society. They are given many sports and other past times to keep them spending and this helps keep money flowing.
To keep the thinking level of the masses to a level where they won’t question the ways of the Overlords, the public are introduced to weaknesses and are told that it is acceptable to enjoy the weaknesses. The weaknesses come in many forms and are very self-destructive.
The people are taught that a man likes he-man things. And women have their own culture created so that the male and female will not see eye to eye and will always have this ego gap holding them apart.
The strength of God is in the unity in the family unit. The greatest achievement is to divide the family unit.
First the mother and father were divided as each chased self-interests. Then the little ones are put into school at a very young age to separate them from their parents.
The next victim is the ever gullible teenager, always keen to learn and discover things. The teenage person is separated from all other humans by the label “teenager”.
The teenager already separated from the parents because the parents, gullible themselves, gave the teenager to society at 3 months old so that mother could work, because the family lived beyond its means and wanted all the temptations that society has to offer.
The teenager and equals (other teenagers) are manipulated after years of training to accept what society tells them. But at the same time the teenager starts to question many of the strange things that they saw while growing up. And they learn to question many of the things that they were told by parents and teachers. It is here that a strong divide is made between amazed family members and the family teenagers.
The people are told that they deserve much because they were born and that because of this that the world is their oyster and that they can do anything and be anything. But in reality very few people reach their dreams or full potential, mostly they do the 40 hour week thing and believe that the vote that they took part in at every political election means that they “had their say”.
The reality is that the political system in place does not come anywhere near satisfying the publics need our wants because it is impossible to do so. But the public are wanting to believe in the superior intelligence of the human mind.
Friday, 27 September 2013, 9:32:24 PM.
