I was on security patrol and all these thoughts about healing and people who have been abused will only harm those who come into their lives, and those who come into their lives who are not right, Narcissists, manipulators, and the like will only cause more abuse, harm. soul-bleeding and suffering. The only way for it all to change is for the people to get healed, and they won’t do that until they recognized that they are damaged. many of the bad-habits are seen as cool, as good, and as fun choices, but they also show a person how socially-connected they are and are conformers to foolishness and slaves to weaknesses and the calling of the crowd.
Notes:
When we get advice off a person/people who make foolish choices then we are limiting our own growth by their limited maturity. Its a thought. Its not judging them, its seeing things for as they really are with weaker minded people who may be educated, but they claim to know what you need in life yet they make immature foolish chocies themselves.
Psychics believe that the qualities (what are often declared as “talents”) are often what we were in a past life, meaning if you were a good artist in a past life you would pick it up very easily in this life, your new most recent life. The childrne who are naturals at something, like Brian Wilson’s, playing l;ike an adult as a child are often seen as people who were a good pianist in a past life, and Brian’s life is often compared with Beethoven and the like. Interesting also, is that his overuse of drugs to comfort his undiagnosed depression and anxiety, he should have died long before his brothers and the other band members but he lives on, still playing, still active, and that shows that the physical and what we expect often are not what happens. As I mentioned before a Policeman I know told me that he attended many accidents on the roads where people should have died and didn’t and some did die in what seemed like minor accidents (especially when compared to the other car accident.
Life is not understood by the mental health system, science, the medical experts and politicians because life does not work in categories, with labels, with a constant linear factual system, it is random and governed by who we are, our importance to others, and God and Satan. Pick your side and therefore you pick your future and eternity.
Without hope there is nothing but defeat. To admit defeat to ourself gives fear and defeat a big win over us without even trying to destroy us. With hope we arm ourselves with a chance, an opportunity to be what sometimes seems an impossibility.
See the world in good way and the world will see you in a good way. See the good in the world and the world will see the good in you if you keep this positive attitude and make it deep set in your life. Those who don’t know the fun of life will gain happiness from viewing you and your happy innocent ways.
Always keep in mind that your suffering, if you have any, can be used in the future to help others once you get over it. For every issue you overcome you can become a teacher of overcoming that struggle to someone in need. You can use your experience to bring other people from suffering to life without that struggle and a better existence. Your pain can be someone else’s gain and free them from shame!
Don’t ever think that you are too bad in the way that you live for God to accept you as His child – everyone who goes to God has done bad (sinned) – it is after we go to God that we find out about change and we are led to change and the removing of bad habits and ways. So if you are tormented by the past, Christ is your key to a new future. God can do anything…
– 2011.
You, me, everyone was born for a good reason, we are worthy, and we will in some way be important to ourselves, those who deserve our love, and to others.
I realise now that the thing that weakened me in the past was the life that others gave me. I was not to blame for my failings, I was simply reacting to a rough and tough childhood, and that is why I lacked confidence and courage as an adult. It also occurred to me that just because I didn’t have confidence and courage now did not mean that I won’t have them in the future.
I realise now that I would never have enjoyed my life, success, happiness that I feel today without living on. We have to get through some very tough hard times to come out on top as the strong courageous person who we will be in the future. Like any worthy project there has to be some tough yards to be conquered before we make it through to each stage of progress in our lives.
Please consider this, if you are not struggling it is not because of anything that you did wrong. If you are having self doubts and struggles, it is because of how others influenced you and brought you up. Knowing this you know that there is a cure to your problems, lots of hope, a new world for you to have and enjoy that you never thought possible and never thought for you existed. Knowing this you can try, have hope, and believe in yourself.
As you progress, learn, adjust, change and rearrange your mind, thoughts and life, you will see that you were mistaken about yourself in the past, you will finally see that you deserve a good life as much as anyone else alive does. 2018.