Manipulation & Narcissist Techniques

These are videos of individual techniques used by people who manipulate other people to control them or to have power over them and use them.
The narcissist manipulators are mentally unbalanced, immature and have the Narcissist Disorder.

A person can spoil you by giving gifts, promising the world, acting the real concerned, loving, gentle soul, while setting you up to feeling special and very grateful for all that he or she is doing for you. With your protective boundaries down you accept anything they offer and over time become a home slave for a masochist, who likes to make you feel suffer.

To argue with someone who always finds a harsh or gentle way to win over you and walk away as if he or she won is to argue for no reason at all, because you never win and never get what it is that you really want and really need.

This technique is used by someone to make people think that you are bad.
There are the people who are being manipulated as observers, often from a distance, who see what appears as if you were a bad person, and the only version of events that they get is from the person trying to make you look bad.

Another case I know of in a church setting. The Pastor’s wife went into a room with another woman who she wanted to control. The victim refused to agree with the Pastor’s wife, so the Pastor’s wife ran out of the room in (fake) tears into a room where she new that the entire congregation were and was the only door out from where she was talking to the victim.
When the victim walked out of the room the entire congregation was looking at her as if she was mean, a bully and cruel for upsetting the Pastor’s wife. The victim lost a lot of friends that day as was intended by the Pastor’s wife.

The narcissistic parent will setup siblings against each other for personal gain and control over them all. Setting up a destructive pattern that can stick for decades or a lifetime. Each child has a role to play according to the will of the narcissist parent/s, and it only ever benefits the narcissistic parent/s.
In a narcissist parents home the children are taught to rival each other with careful manipulation, and in being so they tend to rival each other for the attention and affection of the parents.