Feminism is also females trying to be males while trying to make males female, so that men do the housework, female tasks, all the things that women are naturally good at, while the females desperately try to be what they are no naturally good at to feed ego, self, vanity, to seek pleasure and power over others in the workforce or home.
I donate to causes like the Rescue helicopter, never needed the service yet, but at least it helps other people.
The trouble with donating is that they have a “Network Service” and also they figured that once you donate there should be no issue sending you constant reminders to donate.
When my wife was working for Labour MP Mark Burton, Mark had an interview with a charity organisation, and he felt good about making a donation. But basically instantly charities were making appointments with Mark for money/donations, they figure it that he donated to one charity he will give to all. The first charity that he gave to, took the money, then gave out his details to the Charity-Network” and they all dived in for the feast, trouble is, once they do that they become a nuisance and Mark stopped making donations, he had no choice, it was that or become broke.
To catch a liar out I talk to the person I suspect and watch their face intently when I ask a question that I suspect them of lying about. It takes a real professional liar to look you in the eye and keep lying, but if you keep asking such questions they will more than likely get more and more frustrated with your attack and defending themselves, or the guilt sets in they can get nasty and personal as they try to turn the attack back to you so that it is you that looks bad and not them.
You don’t need to catch the crook out, all you need to do is note how they react to you when you are applying the pressure. And also note that if you go into the conversation weary of that person, especially family, and then you leave the conversation feeling unconfident and guilty after they respond to your questions, know that they are guilty because they used gaslighting and the guilt treatment to win the argument, meaning that they turned the blame from them back to you once again.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
2019.
At times in our lives we find that all around us is not what it seemed, people are not as honest as they would make us believe, in reality they are shooting down our dreams.
We need to refocus and see that we are still alive, still capable, still have much to live for and to believe in, especially believing in ourself.
Leaving the fakes and sneaky behind us is sad because we once believed in them, we thought that they had our back, but the blessing is that once these people who weighed our life down are gone we find a new freedom, new hope and life is much lighter and a far easier, happier and blessed future awaits us.
Have courage! Because courage brings forth within you the person you have always wanted to be, the soul who won’t be pushed around, the one who stands up for all that is good, what is good, and for a better future for the greater good of all.
in doing so, you will join the ranks of the worthy, the life changers, the strong and good.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
2019.
If a person lived through life only seeing what he or she was told to see then they would only see what others projected for them to see. They would miss their own true worth, they would not see truths, they would miss opportunities that came their way that didn’t suit the opinions of others.
Your truth is within you, and your journey is the discovery of your truth, your importance in the world, and your destiny.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
May 22, 2018 at 12:51 AM.
The only way to have self respect is to do the right thing and to stand up for those who cannot stand up for themselves.
People can become deeply immersed into their beliefs so much that their beliefs becomes a solid rock of faith, but in reality they are standing on sinking sand.
“You can’t change someone who doesn’t see an issue in their actions!”
We should always remind our children and ourselves that we are works in progress and to be open minded all the time so that we can learn, relearn with new information, and not be narrow-minded. No human alive knows everything, and that means that none of us have the facts perfectly, and that is a reminder that we need to keep learning and be open minded enough to consider the lessons of life and new discoveries that come our way.
The narrow-minded do not progress, they stay as they are never improving, never growing, and often pridefully demanding that we all follow their blind thinking – this is because they think that they know it all. To be free we need to be humble and know that we are works in progress that are always learning new things all the time.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
May 21, 2018 at 1:53 PM
There are telltale signs in a person’s behaviour at all stages of life.
A mother may over-control her child, not allowing it to develop properly; the child then clings to the mother and may develop the need for her approval before performing even the simplest of tasks. Following this, for the rest of their lives, such children view the world through the eyes of their mother, living their lives according to the template she laid down.
Abuse by parents, often unintentional and sometimes brought about by over-indulgence in the pursuit of pleasure for themselves and for their children, invariably has the unfortunate outcome of producing a child who grows into a maladjusted adult. It’s not surprising that parents who don’t define the boundaries for their children produce offspring who don’t know where the boundaries lie. An adolescent who enters the adult world without having had guidance as to where interpersonal boundaries lie runs the risk of becoming narcissistic. An individual who develops symptoms of its worst form, malignant narcissism, can create mayhem for many innocent individuals who have the misfortune to be associated with.
If we can understand narcissists and their codependent supporters, we can find ways to remove much of the pain and suffering, not only in the lives of those who suffer at their hands, but also in the lives of the narcissists themselves and in those of their codependents, and we can also reduce the frequency and depth of any ensuing periods of anxiety and depression.
– David Thomas.
Watch out! God’s heading your way 
Divine Providence, or providence, is God’s intervention in the world. A distinction is usually made between “general providence”, which refers to God’s continuous upholding the existence and natural order of the universe, and “special providence”, which refers to God’s extraordinary intervention in the life of people. – Wikipedia.
