Parenting & Children Notes.

If you are short on money and your children know it they can feel guilty when you may need to spend money on them, even for health issues.

Talk to them over this. Let the child know that he or she is worth a lot to you, and you care very much for that child’s well being. You want the best care for your child – at least the best that you can afford. And often people get care that they cannot afford for their children and pay it off over a period of time.

A child can carry guilt for many years if the situation is not looked after carefully. There are currently many generations of guilt-carrying children. Let us be the ones that break that cycle and stop guilt having a deep harmful affect on our children’s lives.

Many books on mind therapy cover the harm that guilty feelings can have on children. Some of the stories are shocking and very sad. This is mentally harmful to a child while he or she is trying to deal with life. It is accepted that some parent deliberately give their children guilt feelings to gain something from the situation. We parents can accidentally give our children guilty feelings as well. We must be aware of this.

All the best from
James Martin Sandbrook.
‎Thursday, ‎1 ‎February ‎2007, ‏‎7:39:00 PM.