Sinful behavior is the exact opposite of good behavior.

A person who changes from the innocent child into the harsh adult, has lost their innocence from the acceptance of sin.

All things good are gentle, kind, loving, decent, etc. The word “good” means all these things.

Sinful behavior is the exact opposite of good behavior.

Society gives teenagers the choice of being “not cool” (good) or being “cool” (behaving badly).

So in a desperate want to feel needed, popular (due to feeling insecure and unconfident from their upbringing up to this point), and accepted by their friends they give in and act as cool as they can, even if that means pretending (at first) to dislike family etc.

Losing ones spiritual innocence leaves a hardened person, someone who sees no wrong in controlling other people’s lives, who may see no wrong in sexual abuse, takes advantage of others and makes excuses why it is alright for that person to do so. No love can reach that person, and they have no idea how to love someone else, even their own children.

The hardened person is hard to get through to because they think that they know it all, so they feel that someone that they have taken advantage of is not worthy of their respect. They certainly will not listen to someone they don’t respect.

So if you find that you are not getting respect from your parents after years of trying, ask yourself why they won’t listen to you? Is it because they don’t respect you?

People who use others by trickery think that the person that they fool is an idiot. They think that this person that they take advantage of its so stupid that the abuser must help the victim because the victim is a fool. The abuser is deluded and thinks that they are doing the poor victim a favour by controlling the victims life (even though they destroyed the victims life in the first place).

The victim of course is the last person to find out that he or she has been taken advantage of. And can feel ever so unworthy or stupid, but they were groomed carefully by the parents to be gullible. It is not the victims fault.

All guilt belongs to the abusers.

All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
‎Tuesday, ‎28 ‎July ‎2015, ‏‎9:13:28 PM.