Today it was, “What you will allow will continue.”.
Another recent thought seems to have come from an encounter with a younger man in a black ute (I see this ute around often).
One day the both of us pulled up at a T intersection. He saw me and he looked scared, then he nervously waved at me and then abruptly looked up at a two-story house on the corner as if afraid of being seen being friendly to me. I noticed this strange behaviour carefully.
After that I remembered that narcissists are basically cowards, they work in the shadows and the people who they abuse never hear about what they say. All of us would at sometime been a victim of such people.
What kept coming up in my mind was that people who are narcissists, bullies and such, talk big about what they will do to us if they meet us, but when they do come across is they are coward’s, say hello, or act nice and scurry away like a crab caught out in the open.
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I remember a guy who had fooled a young pregnant woman into marriage and then abused her. I found out that he had been bad mouthing me because she liked me, but when we came face to face in a supermarket he was friendly and said hello.
These people are always pathetic and weak, but sneaky too, and they seek people who they can use and abuse. They seek innocent people’s trust and love, then they abuse them.
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So if you are in the company of someone who is always bad mouthing someone else, ask them to say it to the other person’s face, or note what happens when they meet face to face. If the big mouth is a coward you very probably have a coward (possibly a narcissist) in your midst and that can never be good for you.
Watch people, see how they treat people, note how they are and do their words match their actions.
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Life is for learning, so please, keep learning
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Sunday, 4 August 2019, 7:15:31 PM.