Sugar Coated Help:
(Could also be Sugar Coated Ministry for churches that don’t go all the way to spiritually curing the congregation)
When a person has problems deep in their soul, a heart felt issue that bothers them so much that they cannot function well as a human being they need their heart and soul repaired.
In the world today we have some Sugar-Coated-Helpers who change the person in a material sense. They listen to them. They talk to them and tell them what is wrong with them, then tell them how they are going to fix the issues. They lay on the praise. They change the person’s clothing. Do up their hair in some new way. New perfume for women. And lots of pats on the back to push the victim onward to fail again.
Sugar-Coated-Help only lasts until the first obstacle and the person who has the issues falls flat on their face once again because their heart and soul were not fixed. They are always told that they will be alright but they never are and they can blame themselves for failing but it is not their fault – it is the helpers who are at fault
Friends and family can be like this too. Laying on the praise and such, or people with a education in some field and it seems that they know everything but fail again and again.
It is like having a broken down house and only fixing the outside and painting it lovely but the inside is still a wreck and will crumble when used.
it is like building a house on sand, when the storms come the sands wash away and the house collapses. Fixing the inside of the person spiritually creates a strong foundation on which the storms of life cannot collapse.
It is best to get help from professionals and not amateurs who fumble away forever and always getting nowhere fast.
