When you are in the most craziest situation and it just feels helpless there has only one real way to get out of it. Complaining, getting angry, getting frustrated and such produces no positive results. All they do is cause more angers and frustrations and especially they slow down any positive progress from our current situation.
If everything that you tried before didn’t work then you must try something else, or go back and try something that was good and worked in the past – as long as it was good and is supported by God. You must not give up believing that you can get past any issues that you have right now. If you feel that those who have advised you were wrong, yet you believed in them before, look for someone who will do a better job at helping you. You can’t give up, because there is a door out there that you can go to that God will open for you. When the right time comes God will show it to you.
Things may look sad, or confusing, or frustrating or all these things, but there is always a way out. This too will pass. Remember also that this may be something that you need to deal with in a different manner. Maybe you need to study your life, who you have been, consider being something else, something more worthy, more healthy, more honourable. It is strength that we need in our hearts that changes us.
Sometimes in life we need to redirect our future path. If we pray about it then following God is a great help. God knows what we don’t know. Think about who you wanted to be and then think very carefully about who God would want you to be. Look into the fact that God is a big supporter of family, children, decency, love and the like and you can see that change in some areas of your life is possibly needed or a big change to get the results that you ask for.
Never, ever give up – giving up is turning away from what God wants to bless you with (regardless of your past) and go back to the sins of the past.
All the best from James M Sandbrook.