A couple of ex’s of mine were physically abusive. One would walk around the house breaking stuff and yelling at the same time, she did this about once a wekk or fortnight. She said her mother did it at home to get her father to do what the mother wanted and he would. She expected me to be as her father was, and I refused to bow down to such behaviour. After we split up she said that the neighbours told her that I was being violent and the neighbours thought that it was me smashing the stuff and causing her to yell. She was a pretty blonde and they all saw her as an angel. She played on their beliefs never correcting them and got special treatment and she laughed at what suckers the neighbours were.

Another would turn up at my home trying to break in, was violent, threatened to use the Police against me (She had an uncle in the local Police) and she said what Amber Heard said, that no one would believe the man and everyone would believe the woman. Back then, in the 1990’s that was the case, the female was always seen as the victim or if she was caught doing something wrong the male always was seen as pushing her to misbehave.

There were no house camera’s back then or they were very expensive. I think that its good that men are now able to prove that their partners or wives are violent and that proof, like Depp taping Heard, gives the world a true view at females playing the victim, because without the evidence people tend to always believe the female.

Females get away with the lies because it seems hard to believe that she could bully the man. But she gets away with it because the man is a true gentleman who does not want to hit her even when furious with her. Because he does not fight back physically he is deemed a coward or people just believe that anything they hear is him hurting her, and not the other way around.

Recently a young woman, probably in her 20’s had a fit at me while I was on Security Patrol, she lost control and made fake accusations.
But she foolishly did it right under a camera that was outside pointing at the door where she lost the plot.
She got a hold of people on my job and made out that I bullied her (she was scared that I would complain about her and that she would lose her job). I didn’t have my body camera on when it happened 🙁

She told my supervisor it was all my fault and that the video proved it, hoping he would fall for her bluff and blame me, and he did. He had not seen the evidence. He just assumed her innocence.

I went to the boss of the company, asked her to view the footage and they supported me against the woman. The boss apologized to me for what the female had done and the false accusations. The video proved that I was innocent and just doing my job. I have no idea what happened to the female.

People lie, but many young females have discovers that playing the victim when they do something wrong shifts the blame to someone else. And if the male does not have proof he is assumed the guilty one.