What our parents should have taught us, and showed us, is that looks are not what we should use as a guide to a good decent reliable woman. If the young adult males mother uses makeup, and is vain, then the young male will see her as an example of what women are like.

What we need to do is to look out of the Materialistic Square we have been shown and taught to conform to, and wonder more about a woman who is strong willed in moral standards, good decent values, reliable, not afraid to admit that she was wrong, and a good mother.

Many people say, “Look at the Mother!”, and see what the mother is like, because the daughter will have many of the mothers traits simply due to the daughter experiencing her mother as the closest adult female that she has ever known, and therefore she subconsciously copies her mothers ways, thinking, values or lack of values, language and Feminist or non-Feminist ways.

Many daughters are not their mother, but often are various versions of the mother. So check out the mothers character, does she use bad language, then ask yourself do you mind if your wife for life uses bad language, see what I mean?

Think about all the behaviours in a woman that you dislike, and especially behaviours in your own mother or other woman adults who you have known. Falling for a females looks or the attention and kindness that she gives you, or after a one night stand after a party, is a sure fire way to seduce yourself to fall in love with her looks and sex, but you make excuses for her bad character.

Many a male is against abortion. But he falls for a female who has a Feminist mother. They marry, the daughter has her career, she gets pregnant, and then she tells him that after some thought she will have an abortion that her mother is setting up, and the joy of being a father, her being the woman carrying his baby and so forth is gone with the horror that she is still under her mother and Feminisms controlling wing and will abort his child.

This the very reason why I gave up sex 21 years ago, because I didn’t want o go with a woman who would want to abort our baby.. Most women today will tell you before marriage that she would never abort the baby, until she gets pregnant, and then she becomes her mother or Feminism and you have no rights in the outcome.

Before you get serious with a female find out her wants, likes, dislikes, views o0n many subjects, and see how they align with your views. Remember, if you are so easy going and have no views you will fall for anything she puts in your way that is fake or a lie. Have views, strong views, and please don’t be afraid to walk away if she does not agree with you on important family matters, matters about the children, and so on.

What you find out will show you what kind od person she is, so talk to her, and let her talk a lot, and you listen – women love to talk, and they love to talk about themselves for hours, so let her talk.

Say you dislike the thought of abortion, and she says that she supports abortion because her mother does, question her more, find out if she will actually abort her own children, she might support it but be against doing it herself.

If you meet a woman at a party, and from then on you both party, she gets pregnant, has the child, you marry, get a home, you can just about guarantee that she will wantto keep partying rather than be a mother. You see, it was the circumstances that caused her to change her ways, it was not her choices that made her stay home with baby for the first year – so don’t be surprised if she decides that she wants to go out with the girls, party, drink up with the buddies and you stay home looking after baby. Circumstances made her decide to marry you and be with you, it was not a choice, thus she will be very likely sleeping with guys behind your back.

We males tend to make assumptions about the woman having the baby and transforming into a stable caring mother, yet in the party or Feminist life she was all party or all career. If she has baby, she will want to go back to parties or career. So just make sure that this is what you want before you sleep with her and become trapped in a toxic relationship.

Equally yoked means that you both think the same.

Have you had a mate who’s women is found to be sleeping around but she is fierce and attacking when caught out. Its because she never said that she would have only have sex with the father of her child and she never said that she would give up partying, drugs, booze and casual sex, so when caught out she feels that she has nothing to feel ashamed about. In fact to her he is the fool for assuming that she would give up her single life for him.

As a male, ask yourself if you want a good responsible woman.
Once you know what you want then that is the type of woman you should have.

Be willing to go without, be willing to wait, and don’t regret losing the woman who you think was the right one but she was not of good character.

What we get when we get the good-lookers, is someone to impress our friends and an egotistical vain female who will make your life a living hell as she expects life handed to her, and she expect you to give her all that she wants. There are exceptions to the rule, but very few.

You will never regret going without and waiting as it avoids unwanted pregnancies with women who appear the right one on the outside but after a few years becomes living hell. Find out about her sisters as well, are they suffering mental issues, have tantrums, hate each other, if so then there is family issues there, strong ones, and those issues will bleed in to the new family and you and your children will get cut-mentally with her family troubles.

No one is perfect, and your partner for life won’t be either, but the point is, does she want to change, be a better person, or does she jsut feed you with what you want to hear from her so that she can have you for a while before she moves on leaving you broken hearted while she plays the suffering abused victim.