Helping People grow!
The Past and people from the past and new people in your life who act or have the same characteristics as those of your past are just there to repeat the past if you want to go backwards in your growth.
Many people just live life. They go from this to that and never stop to wonder why they seem haunted by the past, or the past seems to them to just keep repeating itself, or people keep coming back who they like and some they dislike, but they see no plan or patterns to this al and these people never change nor do they learn from the past.
They say that when the teacher disappears it is so that the student can act on his or her own and discover what he or she will do when confronted by someone from the past or a similar situation from the past.
If we do as we have always done we will get what we will always get, and if we don’t lern from the past it will then repeat itself, and that is no coincidence, it is because we entertained people from the past or we took part in the past in some way that turned out bad for he or she but still they thought that this time it will all be well, and then it isn’t.
Ever hear yourself exclaim in frustration, “When will I ever learn!”
That is you recognizing that you did something or deliberately went back with an old lover who did you wrong, and they do you wrong again and stunned at your own foolishness and not stopping the situation.
When we help someone, we warn them, we show them, we give them a lesson, we explain, and then when the cat is away the foolish mice decide to play, and they get burned yet again.
The past and the people from the past, and new people who are like the people who were in your past should not be in your life now if they were a bad influence.
Be warned, those who want to seduce you again, they will tell you everything that you want to hear so that you want to believe that they are a different person.
Its like that saying, “Your lover from the past came back just to see if you were stupid enough to et he or she back in to your life again.”
You may choose to look the other way but you can never say again that you did not know.
– William Wilberforce.
Some of the 2011 and 2010 Facebook statuses that I wrote.
Character assassination is a deliberate and sustained process that destroys the credibility and reputation of a person, institution, organization, social group, or nation.
Agents of character assassinations employ a mix of open and covert methods to achieve their goals, such as raising false accusations, planting and fostering rumours, and manipulating information.
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Character assassination is an attempt to tarnish a person’s reputation. It may involve exaggeration, misleading half-truths, or manipulation of facts to present an untrue picture of the targeted person. It is a form of defamation and can be a form of ad hominid argument.
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For living individuals targeted by character assassination attempts, this may result in being rejected by their community, family, or members of their living or work environment.
Such acts are often difficult to reverse or rectify, and the process is likened to a literal assassination of a human life.
The damage sustained can last a lifetime or, for historical figures, for many centuries after their death.
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– Wikipedia.
Gullible:
Adjective: gullible
Easily persuaded to believe something;
Credulous (having or showing too great a readiness to believe things.)
“An attempt to persuade a gullible public to spend their money”
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Synonyms:
Credulous, over-trusting, over-trustful, trustful, easily deceived/led, easily taken in, exploitable, dupable, deceivable, impressionable, unsuspecting, unsuspicious, unwary, unguarded, unsceptical, ingenuous, naive, innocent, simple, inexperienced, unworldly, green, as green as grass, childlike, ignorant; foolish, silly;
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Informal:
Wet behind the ears, born yesterday.
“the swindler preyed upon gullible old women”
– Google Search.
Marriage and an honest family have to be the greatest gift’s of all because of their depth of goodness and the healthy loving future if it is based on God and truth, love and honesty. A man, a woman, children – a continuation that breeds yet other families. The masculine part, the feminine part, an equal blending of each to build and guide the children up until they too will reach out and have families of their own, casting their parents knowledge and wisdom further with each child, grandchild etc forever.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
August 16, 2012.
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When gossipers and troublemakers go up to you to lie to you about other people they think:
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That you are gullible because you are going to believe them without real evidence.
You are so easily-fooled that you won’t ask the victim if the gossip is true.
So foolish to listen to them in the first place.
They think that your mind is weak, that you are weak-minded.
They don’t respect you or they wouldn’t even consider lying to you.
They think that you are a sucker for tales that they make up.
They see you as a tool for their attempts to destroy someone else’s public character.
You are easy to use and abuse for their purposes.
They don’t really like you.
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Wake up people please.
Get the facts behind gossip. Just because family, or friends, or a casual acquaintance told you something, that doesn’t make it true. Even TV, radio and newspaper get it wrong every now and then. Please get your facts before you believe peoples tales.
Please don’t let people fill your mind with wild-imaginings – their only aim is to hurt and main peoples lives with their devilish stories.
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Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people. – Eleanor Roosevelt.
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Save some poor miserable soul from suffering because backstabbers are attacking them. Think, question and then do your own investigations.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
16 August 2016
You can’t live a perfect day without doing something for someone who will never be able to repay you. – John Wooden.
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It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful. There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power. – A Cohen.
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Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people. – Eleanor Roosevelt.
It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful. There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power. – A Cohen.
They push you and push you.
Finally you have had enough so you lay down the facts as you see them, and then they try to make out that it is you that has the issues because you have lost your temper or are finally standing up to them. They want you to feel guilty and submit to them again. “People, please don’t let people silence the truth’s that you know, have your say, never be silenced. Act on your faith.”
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Say what you believe, and if they can’t handle that then find your peace elsewhere.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
May 20, 2015 .
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James M Sandbrook.
Life only gets better when we become better people wanting and desiring good for all, and being the good in the world which we always wanted to see in others.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
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