The Seduced Friend.

I grew up with a Feminist mother and 6 sisters, and I got to see a lot of female manipulation and females cat fighting, and females seduction, a lot of what was women taking advantage of or ruining the chances of happiness of a “friend”.

But some mothers don’t like the male (or friend)  that the daughter likes so the mother gets people together, tells them its for the daughters own good, lies about the boyfriend and they all help the mother convince the daughter to hate the boyfriend or intended, and the daughter goes with a male chosen by her mother instead.

You would be amazed at the amount of females who are happy to help their mothers or the parents destroy another females chances of happiness, especially sisters, and especially jealous sisters.

Sometimes in order to get a best friend or close friend of the daughter to fall-in and join the manipulation, the “friend” is offered a deal that the friend cannot refuse, normally money or something of that sort.

The daughter completely trusting the friend who has been a friend probably since school or a young age, and completely trusts that person. But, in this modern age people tend to have a price that weakens them and they sell out the friendship, and they lie to themselves and tell themselves that “it is the best for their friend” and they too join the ranks of the seduced to seduce the daughter.

Do realise that even if you won’t betray your friend for a price, your friend may have completely different (just not spoken) values and will sell you out for the right amount of money.

If you are a Believer, and you prayed and asked God to show you those who are not friends but are pretending that they are, don’t ignore God’s guidance.

Use common sense and logic, and if you look at your friend and ask yourselves, “Would she betray me to $20, 000?” Be logical, because most of your friends or all of your friends would. And even if that amount sounds ridiculous, remember that some people will go to great lengths because of pride or anger to achieve their goals.

This is why we are told to follow God, not people. If God gives you warnings, “coincidences”, red flags, take note, because God is letting you know that God heard conversations and plans you did not hear.

Sometimes God may show you that someone is leading you astray and in to a bad life or relationship, but that same friend can be a reasonable friend as long as you don’t allow that person to lead you astray.