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You don’t feel respected. You don’t think that this is fair on you?
Well, to get respect we need to give respect where it is due. We need to be responsible for the things that we have done wrong to get respect. To really be respected we need to right the wrongs that we did, to show we care, are worthy, and should be respected.
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I read that one of the strongest desires we have is to be understood.
You may choose to look the other way but you can never say again that you did not know.
– William Wilberforce.
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“Remember, you have been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.”
– Louise L. Hay.
Remember there are two sides to every story.
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If you are not willing to listen to both sides then please don’t be so quick to make your judgment of the person or situation on what little information that you have.
To find the truth then we must find out both sides of the story, and only then can we make a proper assessment of what is really going on.
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Sometimes we humans complain about how things turned out, or we regret choices that we made in the past. With only half the truth we are sure to make a mistake with our decisions. After all, how can we succeed with only half the information that we need to make a good choice for the future?
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If we have both sides of the story then we have a much greater chance, a 50% more chance of getting it right and things working out better in the future.
Be sure to get your facts right by doing your own investigations.
If you have doubts then get all the information, do research, and get results.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
December 6, 2014.
Some of the 2011 and 2010 Facebook statuses that I wrote. Images 2023. James Herriot.
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I know someone who is being manipulated by a narcissist. This person has been treated like this before, knows that what is happening is wrong but cannot control themselves.
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The whole thing about revelations, waking up, an awakening etc is often about one feeling overcoming another feeling. The victim wants to be controlled because the victim has life-coping-issues and is desperate (or just used to) for others to control his or her life.
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People who are being seduced and fooled by a narcissist have not come to enough suffering and pain to walk away. The feeling that something is wrong and the suffering is not enough yet, so they allow the abusive brain washing and manipulation to continue.
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This person I know who is being emotionally abused by the narcissist refuses to listen to me. So I must wait until this person “clicks” and the connection between the narcissist and the victim is snapped and the victim will walk away to safety out of the reach of the narcissist. This could take years, but no one can help a person who won’t take help and will just go back to the narcissist in the end. Leaving must be the victim’s choice.
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Until then, the suffering continues.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
August 14, 2017 at 12:31 PM.
When we suddenly come across a revelation the worst thing that we can do is allow others to talk us out of believing in what we have just discovered about ourself.
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Revelations about ourself or about others, life, religion etc, and our life are given to us to show us what is wrong, what needs changing and what can be done. To ignore them is to defeat ourselves and to go back to a fruitless path. We must have the courage to face the truth.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
August 13, 2017 at 8:13 AM.
Everyone has a song to sing, everyone is a star in their own right.
It is only the mass idolatry that claims your importance from you and people we know will adore people far away that they don’t even know and have never met.
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The real important people are in your heart right now. Those that you have received and filled your heart with their special love. Those special people who you hold tender and wish to be with they are the people you love and should be with.
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Let them know that they are special in your life. Be with who is really important to you. Only you know who they really are. And those who love you know that they wish to be with you.
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You have a song to sing and that is the song of your life that lives in your heart and feeds your soul with positive love.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
August 13, 2012 at 3:40pm.
What if? What if it succeeds, what if it doesn’t.
Should I try?
Obviously.
James M Sandbrook.
But true loves there to catch you when you fall.
– Brian Wilson.
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Remember everyday that you are using up time, and time is something that you cannot get back.
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Make your years count, spent them how you want to spend them. They are more precious than gold, and so are those who you deeply love.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
August 12, 2017 at 3:17 PM.
If you are in an environment where you fear ridicule, being told off and are walking on eggshells so to speak, you are in a environment that is designed by others to keep you weak and never feeling truly free.
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If you are in an environment where you have no fear of speaking out your innermost thoughts and feelings, sharing your dreams, and enjoying your own craziness with no fear or shame, then you are in an awesome environment that will help you grow into a wonderful person. This is your Garden of Eden.
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When we grow up we get to choose our own family, and we also get the choice of choosing our own environment to live in. If your home life is spiritually free and exciting, happy and you fear nothing, then you are where you should happily be. This is where your heart wants to be. Enjoy!
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
August 12, 2017 at 6:22 PM.
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