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It is very important that we don’t hold our feelings inside because it can cause us much stress and depression.
We all need a trusted outlet that we can tell everything to without being shamed, accused, abused or hurt.
We all need someone to share ourself with in total honesty, and not be judged or condemned for our inner-personal-thoughts and feelings. Negative pressure doesn’t build up when we have someone to share our life with who really cares.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Sep 02, 2015 2:03pm
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People today tend to forget who we humans really are. Modern Society seems to be all that there is, and we are as workers in a huge bee hive working away as what we were born to do and be. But, to find out who we really are, imagine being born a million years ago, no TV, no electronics, just good food, clean flowing streams of water, free animals, and us working side be side with animals to build from scratch.
Children learned directly from their parents, and were taught to seek answers from within, to learn from every experience, they learn to have courage, to cope, to be worthy, and that the greatest thing of all is to have a healthy loving family.
Originally they may not even have spoken words, but they showed love, empathy, compassion, organization, how to cope, be parents, deal with life, by how they acted, and they showed their young how to survive.
They new deep within that there was a greater power, and they were thankful for that greater power and all that they had.
Perhaps, those who people today think were simple-minded, primitive and such, were in fact far more spiritually, lovingly, advanced than we are today, and they loved and cared for their young and didn’t put themselves before their children.
Their young needed to grow up capable, strong willed, confident and brave, so that they could face the primitive wold, and also protect their aging parents.
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David Coulthard was saying that the average person cannot drive an F1 car due to the person off the street not going through all the cart racing, Formula racing years developing instinctive skills for overtaking, dodging, techniques, and so on.
The same can be said for Martial Arts. Years and years of practice develops skills that are used in self defence. When we do things over and over again the repetition becomes lifestyle.
Coulthard said that he was 5 seconds behind Max Verstappen in a lap when Coulthard had not driven and F1 car in 15 years. A lot of the old feelings, techniques and such were still there.
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Keep the people that encourage you in your life, the ones that you can speak freely with who won’t judge you, instead they understand and help you through the tough times.
Fear does not have any special power unless you empower it by submitting to it.- Les Brown.
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You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. – A.A. Milne.
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Your belief determines your action and your action determines your results. Make sure you can live with the results of your actions. – Carlos Wallace.
Some of the 2011 and 2010 Facebook statuses that I wrote. Images 2023. James Herriot.
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People say things and make promises they have no intention of keeping on a daily basis..
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You can tell someone you love him or her as many times as you want, but until your behavior coincides with that, the other person will probably not believe you. Some feelings cannot be expressed in mere words; they require actions to speak for them. Words are cheap, anyone can tell someone they love them, but they will not feel the immensity of these emotions until they are acted upon.
This concept applies to almost every situation in a person⬔s life. In relationships, if one partner is consistently coming home late from work and not answering his or her phone, the other will probably think this person is cheating. This is a valid concern, since the partners actions are running contrary to how a relationship should be.
This concern will only grow as the actions contradict the faithful promises that were once made. No protests of love will be able to convince otherwise because the actions are looked at over the words.
Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the things we do for each other every day.
Promises mean nothing without proof. People lie all the time and say things just to appease others. You can only learn about a persons true character by watching their behaviors toward you and toward others. Actions should meet verbal commitments, not conflict them.
If you promise something, people might not believe you until they see you actually do it.
If we give off two contradictory messages, verbal and nonverbal, people will have the tendency to believe the nonverbal over the verbal.
We must consistently monitor our actions so that they coincide with the words we say. Words are easy to throw around, but it takes a righteous person to follow through with actions that back them up.
When all is said and done, more is always said than done.
The way people conduct themselves in different situations is a greater determinant of behavior and character than the words through which they choose to express themselves. What you do holds much more significance than what you say. The act of teaching a lesson demonstrates how effective this concept is. People want to have a leader whom they can admire that fulfills their common goals. If you want to convince people to listen to you, you need to do what you say. Most often, lessons are more effective when put into practice rather than just receiving a lecture.
People may not tell you how they feel about you, but they always show you. Pay attention.
Many people have trouble expressing their emotions to partners because of the way their parents treated them and each other. If a child does not see his parents embracing each other and acting lovingly toward one another, they mature thinking this interaction is normal. Furthermore, if children are not embraced or hugged by their parents as they grow up, they will not believe they are truly loved.
Action speaks more powerfully than words, but when you use words as your actions, you probably won’t stop talking.
We can apologize for our mistakes over and over, but if our actions do not change, the words become meaningless. You need to be careful of what you say to someone who loves you, if you are not able to support what you say with actions. It is much more effective to simply act the way you wish to instead of giving someone false hope. Do not lead this person to believe you are actually remorseful if you are just going to go back to your destructive behavior.
At the end of the day, whatever your actions may be will show what you are trying to prove. If you are simply talking, nothing is happening, but when actions take place, you are actually engaging in this behavior. Actions prove who someone really is while words only show what someone wants to be.
– Ashley Fern.
I don’t want to be married just to be married. I can’t think of anything lonelier than spending the rest of my life with someone I can’t talk to, or worse, someone I can’t be silent with.
– Mary Ann Shaffer.
Comparing yourself to others and what they are doing, and what they have achieved in their lives is very self defeating for you.
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Please understand some other people have done more than you and some have done less than you, that is life. And what they have done is no comparison to your life because those other people have experienced a different life than you have, even people from the same family that have lived in the same house for many years have experienced many different things in the same home.
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Years ago a woman told me that her daughter had issues and she and her daughter were struggling to see eye to eye. And then one day the daughter told the mother that when she was a teenager she was raped in a park but in her distress she had told no one about it. And all those years she had his this emotional hurt and baggage on her own shoulders. Once they spoke about it tears flowed, and hearts mended.
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See how people in the same house should not be compared? Also parents have favorites sometimes, and each child faces different ordeals through life.
Please don’t compare yourself with anyone else. You are genuine, you are special in your own way. You have had to face your own trials and ordeals, and because you did (and some of those ordeals and tragic moments you were not prepared for so you struggled and stumbled through them, as we all do) no person has the right to try to pressure you to be like someone else.
You have a completely different character than any other person. Even all the people of the past that are dead since the beginning of time didn’t have your exact character. This shows you how genuine and amazing that you are. You really are one in a trillion trillion 🙂
Be very grateful that you are not like your sister or your mother, father, brother, etc.
To be told to be a copy of someone else is a huge insult to you because God has a plan for your character. He wants to see you progress in His way, and then He wants your life to be blessed in the most wonderful life.
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If people compare you to others then they are telling you that they don’t like who you are, and that they would prefer that you were not around because they would prefer that you were someone else. Save these false hearted people the hassle and move out of their reach. Show yourself some respect.
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Please don’t copy other people’s clothes, hair, attitudes and lives. We live in a time where people think that copying someone famous makes them special. When Lady Diana was at her peak of fame her haircut was the most copied around the world. Many hairdressers made a fortune on people’s lack of self-confidence, and many still are.
When we mimic others we kill some part of our unique individual character. Please stand strong, dare to be different, dare to be you. “Dare To Be Awesome!”
Look inside your character. Search for your strong points, we all have them. Keep positive. Find out what sets your soul on fire.
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Please teach your children to think as an individual.
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When we look less at what other people are like and what they are doing we can notice more and more about the best things about ourself.
Instead of following the crowds desires, ask yourself what your desires are. As you get more time to discovering yourself you will find out more and more things that you would really like to be and do that the crowd are not doing, and you will find that you like doing less and less what the masses are doing. And this is because you are becoming more aware of who you are, what you really want in your life, and who you really want to share your life and adventures with.
We realize that it is time that we stop allowing the crowd to think for us.
Finding our real likes and dislikes can be quiet a surprise. It takes getting away from the crowds, and getting away from peer pressure, family and friends pressure, and simply discovering what is really important to our self.
God will always lend a helping hand in this personal work, because it is a good work of character.
Learn to appreciate the new you, and appreciate your value, unique qualities and character. Humbly appreciate the wonder that is you.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
One thing I learned while homeschooling…
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NINE THINGS GOD WON’T ASK ON THAT DAY
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1. God won’t ask what kind of car you drove.
He will ask how many people you drove who didn’t have transportation.
2. God won’t ask the square footage of your house.
He will ask how many people you welcomed into your home.
3. God won’t ask about the clothes you had in your closet.
He will ask how many you helped to clothe.
4. God won’t ask what your highest salary was.
He will ask if you compromised your character to obtain it.
5. God won’t ask what your job title was.
He will ask if you performed your job to the best of your ability, and reached others through our work and life.
6. God won’t ask how many friends you had.
He will ask how many people to whom you were a friend.
7. God won’t ask in what neighborhood you lived.
He will ask how you treated your neighbors.
8. God won’t ask about the color of your skin. He will ask about the content of your character.
9. God won’t ask why it took you so long to find Him. He will lovingly take you to your mansion in heaven, and not to the gates of Hell.
– Author Unknown.
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Remember always that God wants the best for you. Show your faith and love in God by following God’s wishes for you. If you let God down, you will let yourself down. Remember that!
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
September 3, 2014.
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It is very important that we don’t hold our feelings inside because it can cause us much stress and depression.
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We all need someone to share ourself with in total honesty, and not be judged or condemned for our inner-personal-thoughts and feelings. Negative pressure doesn’t build up when we have someone to share our life with who really cares.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
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