A persons awakening is something uncontrollable that just happens.
They just one day “get it” that everything they once wanted in life is not what he is she wants anymore.
Life is just going through the motions that every one expects of you, but it feels suddenly very empty, uncertain, and what once seemed enjoyable is not doing it for you anymore, it feels fake, and has lost its value, if it ever had any.
The other thing is watching friends and family still enjoying the life you don’t enjoy anymore and being strangely happy that you don’t feel like that anymore, that life is not for you, you now want more meaningful friendships, more healthy fruitful choices, a satisfying love that is satisfying and worthy, you now want to be real about yourself and your life.
When we feel detached from what we once valued we have come to a higher level of existence that those around us don’t see, feel, or understand, they are on a completely different mental level of thinking, and cannot go with us on our new life, they are like a heavy weight trying to pull us back to their level and be fake and delusional like them.
When a person has an awakening they want to be with people who think, live and love just as they do, soulfully aligned and headed on the same meaningful journey.