Communication

Color your day with honesty, integrity and love.

I have been thinking about good communication and here are some suggestions that I thought about. I hope they are helpful.
 
Discussion:
The goal should be to find an answer or to achieve a goal etc.
Discussion and arguments should not be about egos or who wins the argument. The idea is about positive communication.
 
The idea is to communicate in a way that all people are heard fairly, and that something positive is achieved by the end of the discussion.
Positive communication that creates positive feedback is a good goal.
 
To use bad language is to lower other peoples opinion of you.
 
To accuse others, abuse others, or lose control of yourself is to warn other people that you cannot be taken seriously and that what you say is “questionable” to say the least.
 
Humans were hard-wired to be social and have a desire to be with others. Good communication keeps the peace and gets good results.
Bad communication causes stress, and bad results, confusions and often failures.
 
Before we go into any discussion or possibly an argument we need our wits about us and a positive attitude.
 
Sometimes not all of us are like this, but if we are calm, and in control of our emotions we will be able to ask questions and answer any questions with clarity and with good results.
Our goal should be for the good of everyone.
 
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
7th of November, 2013.

Talking with honesty heals relationships.