We Should All Understand This

1. Even if it appears that someone’s body is perfect now, in 5 years it could be a total mess. A face, body, or fitness, is a fleeting thing that disappears with time. Please don’t stress about your body and looks, you are just fine.

Please don’t choose a life partner because of their body or looks, this could be the biggest mistake of your life.

 

2. Beauty is in the soul. How we treat people is a good indication if we are beautiful within.

When someone tells you that you are beautiful, thank them. Please be aware that some people are just congratulating your face or your body because it pleases them to see it, show them your wonderful character, show them that you have more meaning and worth than a simple physical pleasure and eye candy.

 

3. There are billions of people out there, billions. You don’t need to stress out and suck up to anyone to please them. Just be you. Those who are of the same beliefs and character as you will come along into your life. No need to search, please just enjoy being the amazing you that you are. You will find that you will be drawn to those who are like you, people with the same values and beliefs.

 

4. We can judge ourselves for things that we don’t have or have too much of (weight) but other people tend to want what we don’t have. I knew a sports man who used to down loads of chocolate and such to try to gain weight, but he always stayed skinny. Improve yourself, try to be fit, but please don’t hurt your soul by unfair harsh self-judgments taught to you by other people. The woman who is unhappy with her stretch marks should realise that there is another woman out there who wishes she had them.

 

5. Education is fine, but courage and confidence come from living, being out there, doing things, and facing unpredictable challenges. With each failure we learn something new, with every success we grow in inner-strength. Life Education is the most important education because it builds strong, capable, mature people.

 

6. Women, don’t look for a man to save you. Be able to save yourself. Men, let her save herself and her courage and confidence will grow, you don’t always have to try to be the hero. Your women must experience life herself just as you had to, this makes you “Both an Unbeatable Team”. Fathers, make sure your daughters have a fun active life like your boys, this will give them confidence and inner-strength.

 

7. The more you see the importance of character and soul the less you will judge yourself and others by looks, fashion, “things” that they have that you don’t have, money or lack of it, and education and/or title.

Your wonderful character and how you make people feel leaves a heart-print on every soul you meet, this is where your true power is, this is where you become the most important person in the world to others.

 

8. We all have that one friend who seems to have it all together. That person with the seemingly perfect life. One thing I have discovered is that we have Life Seasons, and in one season all may be going well, or looks like it is going well to others, and the next Life Season it all changes. Please don’t judge yourself harshly or judge others by what their life appears to be at any given time, people change, life changes, events change lives, and situations change. Show your love no matter what the circumstances are and you will be loved, liked and accepted in all of people Life Seasons.

 

9. Please understand that you are worthy of a good marriage. You deserve equally a balanced relationship where you are treated fairly and with genuine unconditional love. Know your worth and then you will accept nothing less than what you deserve.

 

10. Your body, how it is built, how it works and runs, is a miracle. Your mind has an unlimited memory and your imagination remarkable. You as a total creation is a miracle. Enjoy your life, don’t stress the small things.

Remember, how you react to what happens to you has a big influence on the outcome of your day.

Stay calm, whatever is happening in your life right now will pass like all the challenges of the past did. Move on and learn those Life Lessons with courage. You can do it.

All the best from

James M Sandbrook.
Originally posted on the 9th of August 2018.