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“It’s easier to fool people than to convince them that they have been fooled.”
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Admit nothing, ignore the foolishness and crime, lie about everything, and then counter attack those who are against your schemes.
– Democrat Member, about the attacking of Trumps cleaning up of USAID, and changing American politics for the people.
The democrat was pointing out that the Democrats had their chance to make it better, instead they didn’t and feathered their own nests pretending not to see the madness and foolishness of the Biden administration. And now that the opposition, when in power, is actually doing what the Democrats should have done, the Democrats are complaining, lying, verbally attacking and Character Assassinating the scheme and Character Assassinating anyone involved in improving the country.
You see, the USA political system, and all political systems worldwide, have become so toxic that people are getting in to power in all stages and taking what they can, using other people, making childish claims, irrational laws and so on, and this has become the normal behaviour of the people in politics.
They don’t fix things, they use and abuse people and the system, take taxpayers money, and then blame the opposition for all that has gone wrong while ignoring their own faults, then blaming innocent people for what went wrong.
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When we ignore our own faults and we blame others for our own failings, we don’t learn, and if we don’t learn then all the stupid and foolish self-destructive things that we did in the past we will repeat because we passed the blame on to someone else, thus we will see no harm in doing the toxic things all over again (and then probably blame someone else).
Blame-shifting becomes a habit, and a way out of situations, and Playing The Victim becomes a tool to get the other person to suffer for the things that we did wrong.
When people don’t face what they did wrong and don’t stand up and fix what they did wrong and they get away with blame-shifting and Character Assassination, because they succeeded in putting the blame elsewhere they didn’t (rightfully) suffer for the wrongs that he or she did, and the process will be repeated because the lesson was never learned, and the shame, guilt, and suffering was never experienced by the person playing the victim.
One of my front fence signs. The sign is not crooked, its James’ silly photography.
Facing The Truth About Ourselves
Somethings cannot be undone – remember that.
People from the past that got you in to bad things may smile to you today, pretend to care, but all they really want is for you to be as bad as you use to be, because that is where their mind really is, in the garbage. Their life situation may have changed, but they still are who they used to be.
Make sure you want to be as you were in the past if you let those people from the past back in.
My front fence so far. People have walk past and read the signs so that’s nice. I hope that the signs inspire people and help give them hope, and such.
I will add more signs in the near future.
The big and little 5’s were made with the Band-saw and the New Zealand map was cut with a Scroll-saw. All the wood for these projects was wood that was thrown away by others.
The Two Choices.
Used by people who want to control an individual or a group of people, such as at election time in a country.
When my children were small I read in a parenting book that if you wanted them to do something to do something you gave them only two options to choose from.
an example is if you want them to clean their room before they go out to play in the afternoon, you tell them that after dinner they can clean the kitchen (much more work) or clean their room.
They believing in the honesty and good of their own parents and wanting tog et more play time choose to clean their bedroom.
In politics we are led to believe that there are only Two major Political Parties and we choose from them, even though there can be millions of people available in one’s own country to choose from.
If we are brought up to believe in The system then we accept its offerings as honest and good for all, and we do as we are told with the total belief that choosing from two political parties who are conformers to the system will bring us welcomed, healthy change – it never happens but also the masses of people see this as freedom and they put off what they have to do on election day and line up to vote.
In manipulation the manipulator can “suggest” (really there are not other choices that will be accepted by the manipulator/s) two options for the victim to choose from, and one, like the children’s example above will seem the best of the trow choices and the victim will take it believing that it is the best thing for them.
Both choices offered to the victim are what the manipulator/s want the victim to choose, and the victim is so trusting that he or she believes that in choosing from either offering that they are really having some sort of say in their future (as the masses think at election time).
We are fooled into choosing one or the other option means freedom, liberty, and we are fooled into believing “
that there are really only two choices, when in reality there are many more much more healthier and better for us choices available.
If people offer you a limit of only a few choices, 2 or a few more, then be sure that there are many others, and that those who are making these offers are not being honest with you and cannot be trusted.
– James M Sandbrook.
Monday, 15 June 2020, 7:14:24 pm.
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One of the most horrifying things that can happen to a person is that he or she is accused of something that they did not do by the law or Character Assassinated. The hardest thing to try to internally understand is that you have not done what you have been accused of, and even when it is obvious, but the wrongfully accused person still must suffer the abuse, shame, personal verbal and physical attacks on their selves, and have the horror of trying to accept that they are accepted by the law and others as being completely guilty – when this person is not guilty at all.
The woman in the video below has “beliefs” which were formed in her mind by other people, and she sounds them out loud but then cannot back up the statements that she believes are truths. And her inability to prove what she is saying is actually confusing her.
Bari Weiss is passing on gossip and lies, as part of the Character Assassination of Tulsi Gabbard, of which Bari fully believes that the lies are in fact facts. Chances are that Bari is loyal to those who helped form the Character Assassination and she believes them and does not need proof, loyalty is all the proof that she needs, until confronted and asked to explain the claims about Tulsi that she has made.