It is better to forgive and forget, than to hate and remember.
To truly forgive is to “let the pain and sadness of the past go” – to bring it up over and over again only relives it over and over again hurting once again all involved.
If we keep thinking about how someone has wronged us, then we let that person hurt us over and over again, and this causes even more intense anger and hatred. Let it go for your own sake.
If someone apologises to us it is wise we acknowledge what has happened, if there is sadness and emotional pain then feel it – then free yourself and the person who apologises by letting it go.
Then give that person a big warm forgiving hug and start that relationship all over again.
We who follow God are all about love, forgiveness and grace.
All the best from James M Sandbrook.
Some people’s minds change like the season’s. And then we are left alone again, used abused and sad.
We need someone strong. Someone who has values, sympathy and love that will show its unconditional care throughout the good times and the bad times.
Til death do us part!
If we live, act and think cheap then we will get part time lovers.
But if we hold out for someone who has that special something called responsibility and inner-strength then that person will have the courage to stand by you until the end.
Amen!
All the best from James M Sandbrook.