Love is a Partnership

Love is a partnership between a male and female that is not based on agreement, or a signature on a line, but spiritual-companionship.

The purpose of Love is to bring a male and female together to complete each other as the best of friends, and healers, lover, and as competent parents.
Love is very useful, practical, logical and common sense because Love is the glue to good decent, loving, families, strong and honest communities.
The male and female and at the Head is God, the Creator of all that they are and the guidance of the future that they will both have together.

As was David a man of God Heart, he and she are people of each others spiritual hearts, and that is why they are equally yoked, they are in so many ways, each other.

They both grew up with different issues from their own families, but because they have the same hopes, dreams, desires, beliefs, and cares, they are able to stay on path with each other because in so many important spiritual ways they are as one, single focused, and have the same path to go on.

The issues from their childhood and from society and possibly bad parenting are healed within each other intimately. The darkness within, planted there by others is removed piece by piece and the gratefulness of true love let in, thus creating a thankful heart to God and the one who they married for becoming someone knew, gentle, courageous, humble and basically the person who they wanted to be as a child.
The father and mother heal each other and the good characters that they become from years of listening speaking, healing each other allows each one to become the people who they were originally born to be free of the trappings of the toxic past and openly confident and sure of themselves, God, life and their children.

They are each others upholders, comforters, and the person who they will go through the trials of life with both learning as one and then passing on such important Life Lessons as one to their children to help their own young through life, and to help them become good marriage partners when they grow up and marry and to become good parents, the respect from parent to child is as powerful and deep s the love and companionship.

Love is a power because Love is what holds them together, guides, help, heals, and shows them a safe path into the future.

Love is very practical, and when one chooses true love all else falls into place. Life cannot be perfect, but with Love life is very well worth living, worth striving for, and worth having in one’s life because Love makes the living worthwhile in so many wonderful powerful ways.

The love for each other should be so powerful that when you are apart you physically and spiritually miss the person who you love. The two-as-one thought is welcome here because both feel that way when together and they feel as if they are missing something when apart.

You miss and long for your natural partner, your best friend, your source of happiness, thoughts, laughter, the person who challenges you, the person who you long to feel tough you, hug you, talk to, be encouraged by, helped by, its an essence thing as well.

There was a man who’s wife died, and that night he told the family members goodbye and the laughed and thought that he was silly, he was fit and well, he was clearly to them not going to die.
Yet the next morning they found him dead in his bed.
This man simply could not live another day without his wife, the woman who they had buried the day before, he felt completed, loved, and wanted by her so much that he could not live another day without her, that is true spiritual complete love.

You know love from your reaction to being without the person who you love.
Your mind, body, soul, spiritualness, day, life, are all out-of-sync-without that person, and you feel it, you long for that person as someone longs for salt on their food, life just not seen complete or worth it without that person.

I have had the honour of falling in love and wanting the person who I loved, only for her to want what others wanted for her and that did not include me – so to her I became distasteful, like food without salt or seasoning, but to me she was the salt and seasoning to my life.

You see, we can live life (like food without salt or seasoning), and we an live and breathe, we can work, have sex do activities, get drunk and laugh, laugh at comedies, but we are missing something and our never ending search throughout our lives never find it because for most people they passed by true love when younger because they were too busy listening to others, chasing money, fame, careers, sexual satisfaction, wanting ego filled, and so on.
To many love does not fail them, they simply do not recognize love when it is right there before them, because they are so busy, active, and have personal flaws like vanities, and mental issues, that love could dance on their head and they still would not recognise it or if they did they formed the opinion that it was someone stalking them or pestering them.

I have known of cases where males have waited for a woman for over q decade and still she refuses, only for her a decade later to tell me that she made a mistake and wishes that she had given that dedicated man a chance.

You see, as we grow older and our looks fade (vanities), our desire for money, fame, and so forth disappear, we feel lonely and look back in retrospect at the past and discover that there was a love, a dedicated love, someone who would have done so much for us, and yet we proudly walked on by assuming that we are better than that, until finally that person went away and married someone else, and made that person happy.

Regrets are what we never even tried, and passing over true love for the likes of the crowd is a sad way of passing up happiness and living a life of regrets. I can at least say, that I missed out on love, but it was not of my doing, I tried. Like me, you should at least try.

I wish you love!

All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
25th of October, 2021.