by James M Sandbrook

Love, a Deal?

Maybe real love was more like a business deal, in a sense.

They really don’t know too much of each other in a day to day personal way, but they do know that they like each others character.

When they decide to marry, then they have so much to discover about each other, likes and dislikes, but the overall things are sorted out, the important stuff like moral values borders, children and how to bring them up etc.

Shyly they look to each other, both knowing that there is more to this and more that they both want to try, so they carefully get into each others space, because now it is legal with God.
I say shyly for a reason, because if they are not shy and instead are all bull go ahead one wonders of the real motives.

Sex is the moment that they blend physically, a connection and reward for their personal suffering, trials, life lessons
and a completion of the joining of love between he and she for the sake of each other, love and the creating of a new Godly blessed family.

If one respects the sexual act as an act of love, of reward, of creation, of consummation
– the bringing of two lives together as one for the future family and friendship that was put into place by God.

Your partner in marriage is your reward for years of waiting and growing.

The freedom to pleasure your partner and to find pleasure from your partner is deemed as a good thing, decent, special,
their own enjoyment from each other for each other, to the gain of each other, their own special thing that they do to each other with each other.

During the day, best friends, talking, laughing, making each others life fun, happy, singing the song of love, life, and doing what needs to be done as one.
Their life is their special experience, their special time as one with each other.

Because they only see life with the other person as part of it, they see what they are experiencing as truly special,
truly designed by the Designer for just them two to experience as a couple, and that makes it even more worth hanging on to through the good times and the bad.
When God is the head of the relationship then God has given permission for the love,
the relationship and the pleasure that comes from it, emotionally, sexually and in the spiritual sense of feeling, “Yes, this is where I belong!”

It is all about completeness, of being in heaven on earth in the arms of the one God gifted to you.

You may not see before you eye-candy, or perfection, or financial freedom, but you will see before you the one who will heal you

and who will take your life experience to a new level, a height that no one else can take you to, and no one else can do.

This is what all the worlds fake religious and atheists are after, deep inside their hearts yearn for this completion,
this fulfillment, this total lifting to a new life level of experience and enlightenment.

 
All the best from
James Martin Sandbrook.