by James M Sandbrook
It doesn’t have to be needed, or practical, but it is something that someone wants to do for someone because it makes them feel better reaching out in a loving way to some one that they love.
Like the woman who gets a flower from the side of the road on her walk with her hubby and she puts it in his jacket lapel,
or the man who randomly picks a flower for her and puts it in her hair, and they walk off hand-in-hand smiling.
It doesn’t need to be needed or practical, but it is fun. Maybe that’s it.
Romance should be fun, it should be what both want to do and it should be totally random – that means that love is full of surprises.
People often say that when the romance is gone from the relationship, then the fun is gone too.
The “small efforts that you make count a lot in romance”, so please make the effort, show the one that you love that they are your special one and only,
and that the big things and the little things are something that you want to do for this person.
Let your heart show, let your love flow.
Many people have their own certain romance that is different than other peoples.
But romance is love, and love is romance, and those silly little love songs are about those silly little things that lovers do for one another.
It is the good times and the making of memories that bond two together forever.
We should always remember that the good times are what counts in our happiness, they add up.
All the best from
James Martin Sandbrook.
September 25, 2014.