by James M Sandbrook
When we miss someone is a clear sign that we love this person and we miss the effect that this person has had in our life. If we don’t miss someone they didn’t affect our life in such a way that we want them back.
When we miss someone we miss the effect that they once had on our life, the pleasure of knowing them, the smiles they gave us, the loving feeling within, the inner-warmth and pleasure that this person gave us, and we want it back, thats missing that person, its about knowing their true value to our own life and wanting that back.
Example:
A woman had two suitors and she chose one because of his money, car, title, but discovered as the months went by that she missed the other person because of the effect he had on her life in a more personal emotional way.
Missing the presence of a person in our life is missing how they made us feel emotionally and what kind of imprint they left on us.
We my miss their:
● Smile.
● Laugh.
● Silly Jokes
● Gentle ways.
● Attitude.
● How he or she dances.
● Closeness.
● Approach to life.
● Kindness.
● Influence.
● Random Fun Actions.
● etc.
Jealousy can be the realization that the person who left our life is now affecting someone else the same way that they affected our life,
and all the characteristics that we treasured and enjoyed from that person the other person is enjoying.
This can affect us emotionally because we finally realise that we wish (and want) to be in that other person’s shoes.
The fact that it is this person who we are missing and not other people around us, is that the Whole Package of that person combined is what we miss, because it is only that package with that particular person and no one else can be that person because we are all packaged differently.
Someone else can look nicer, or look like the one you miss, or is better off materialistically, but none affected your life as this one person has, they did not leave an imprint on your heart like this special person has done and the heart aches for it back.Be careful when walking away from people or from letting people go.
We humans can let pride, greed, selfishness, get in the way of how we see genuine people and at first we may think that the materialistic life is better, but as time goes heartache is a sad thing to deal with.
Be picky and choosy about the people in your life, but when you find the genuine one’s,. the one’s that the whole package is what affects your heart and soul, don’t let these people/person go, especially the one who you fall in love with and want to marry.
Large amounts of people never find true love, and many through ego etc are blind to true love and it is not until it is gone they realize what they have lost – especially when they see someone else with the person who they love and they realise that what they are looking at could and should have been them, but they let it go.
Lost A Diamond While Picking Up Stones.
Don’t ignore a person who cares for you.
Cause someday, you’ll realize you lost a diamond
while you were busy collecting stones.
“Missing someone and not being able to see them is the worst feeling ever.” – N Richmond.
“Someone asked me if I missed you. I didn’t answer.
I just closed my eyes and walked away and whispered ‘so much’.”- Author Unknown.
“I miss you. Not in some cheesy “Let’s hold hands and be together forever kind of way”. I just miss you, plain and simple. I miss your presence in my life. I miss you always being there for me. I miss you best friend.” – Author Unknown.
“In French, you don’t really say “I miss you”, you say “Tu me manques” which means “You are missing from me.”
“Have you ever missed someone so much you feel physically sick?” – Author Unknown.
“My memory loves you; it asks about you all the time.”
“When I close my eyes, I see you. When I open my eyes, I miss you.”
“Every piece of me aches for you.”
“My heart never knew loneliness until you went away. I’m missing you.”
“A thousand words couldn’t bring you back… I know this because I tried, neither could a thousand tears… I know this because I cried, you left behind a broken heart and happy memories too… but I never wanted memories… I only wanted you.”