Helping People grow!

Parents, friends, family siblings and so on will lie to you to pretend that they never did you any harm. Parents,a s they get older, tend to deny their sins of the past. They prefer not to remember them and they prefer that you didn’t remember them, especially if they are still doing that sinning out of your view, and they want to avoid public shame and prison.

Parents when they are older can pick and choose what they want people to think of them, and with their own childrne they will chide them over and over again until the child believes what the parent wants the child-adult to believe really happened when it didn’t.
If the parents really want the adult-child to believe a fairytale the parents recruit others (who were in crime with them or just gullible faithful loyal believers) to all join in and repeat the lies, and the adult-child wants to be included in “family” so they push aside any counter-memories and pretend they didn’t exist until finally like their own parents they believe the delusion that the parents have about themselves b4eing good decent parents.
 
A big motivator, like avoiding prison, can make your parents come across to you as absolute angels as they deny all the wrongs that they did to you when you were younger. The horrid thought of prison has them telling you any lies you want to hear about how wonderful and decent they have always been for you, how much money they have spent on you, and how much love and care they have bestowed on you, believe me, they are angels according to them and anyone who says otherwise (who could get an investigation and so on) is the scum of the earth and would be heavily disliked by the abusive parents, and the abusive-parents wpould highly encourage you, the adult-child, to hate/dislike/fear the person/people who the parents feel threatened by.

Evil has its own trappings, and people who do evil get themselves trapped in a rut that they created themselves, but since they were dishonest int he first place they will go all out to be dishonest to keep themselves protected, even at the great suffering of one or all of their own children.

My explanation.

All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
12th of December, 2021.