It is wise to know that you can survive completely on your own without any other person in your life.
Loneliness often comes from insecurity.
Especially if it’s felt if one did not get genuine motherly and fatherly love as a child.
Insecurity is created by not being given be correct opportunities to test ourselves ever young.
Mistreated children, abused children, traumatized children, and parents that just didn’t really care etc, cause a child to cling to people and to feel that he or she cannot cope without another person.
They feel a huge struggle as an adult to cope because they were not able to adapt to life and situations, people etc as a child.
Some will cling to their parents because the parents never filled the correct parent teaching that they should have, leaving the child insecure and needy. The child-adult is always clinging to them hoping for “something”, or for salvation from parents who have no idea how to help. The parents fell short as the child was growing up, fell short and failed the child when the child became a teenager, so obviously the parents cannot help the child-adult either. Their complete failure as parents is now complete.
As an adult, facing the world can be very stressful and demanding. Being unprepared for life can cause great problems with a lack of confidence and a feeling of low courage
For some people the simplest of tasks are a huge struggle. Some people seem to cope for years until a big event happens and suddenly completely collapse, and become desperate for help.
When we are down we may need help to get back up again. This is normal. Have faith in yourself and in those who can help you with your issues. You will do alright.
All the best from James Martin Sandbrook.
Thursday, 8 October 2015, 12:17:50 PM.