People who have dependency issues, like child totally dependent on parents, were made like that because of the toxic functions of the family the child was brought up in.
The parents, knowing their own guilt, pretend to the emotionally, sexually, or physically abused child that the reason for the now adult-childs issues is because of people that the child-adult hangs out with, or people who the child-adult met as an adult. This is to keep emotional and mental control over the suffering victim, and for the blame to be deflected onto other people, or even pushed back on the victim (claiming that the victim has mental illness etc) to keep the victim emotionally and mentally insecure and confused.
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All this keeps the child-adult dependant on the very people who caused all the child-adult’s problems in the first place.
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The whole goal of the parents is to blame everyone else for their narcissistic harm that the child-adult had to grow up with and the abuse in whatever form that suffered in their home, to act as victims to get the child-adult’s sympathy, and to keep the child-adult dependant on them forever, completely ruining the child-adult’s life and his or her children’s lives.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Saturday, 4 June 2016, 5:57:51 PM.