A person can have a perfectly good character and be a good person at heart and yet feel terrible about themself when other people treat them bad.
Your worth as a person is still good no matter how other people affect your day.
Some people play the Rejection Game where he or she uses rejection to make you feel worthless or have less confidence.
So they deliberately do things that make us feel ignored or rejected and that makes us crawl back to them and that is exactly what they want.
Please be wary of this.
Once we crawl back to them they will get us to do things that we originally didn’t want to do, and we will feel ashamed, and they will have even less respect for us.
Also a person who does not want to spend time with you does it because of who that person is, their wanting to be elsewhere is not a reflection of who you are or what your worth is.
And other people’s complaints and view of you is not a reflection of who you are or your true worth.
You need to be less sensitive and less insecure about yourself. Please let go of others opinions of you. Please don’t let them being you down.
You need to emotionally cut yourself off from people who play the Rejection Game, or even someone says they want to be elsewhere then rejoice that you don’t need other people to be happy.
This is why they say that we need to learn to get used to ourself alone – we need to learn how to enjoy our own company, we need to understand who we are, what we like, and what kind of person that we are.
Once you understand that you only need you and God, you will be able to value who you are and you will not allow other people to affect how you feel about yourself.
Be brave, and easily brush off other people’s negative words, actions and opinions. They are just saying and being who they are, this does not make them an expert on you and your worth.
Get in the habit of smiling and walking away from their drama’s, especially if they are giving you their opinion of you and your life.
Don’t let their words hurt you. Stand by what you believe in. Be strong and faithful to God and your heart.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Thursday, 3 September 2015, 7:57:21 PM.