When we get let down it hits us in the heart.
When we need help off people and we ask for help and when they ignore us or simply say, “Oh I am sad, I hope you get better.” and they make no attempt or effort to help then they show us that we are not worthy of their effort. it hurts us. It brings us down and we can feel sorry for ourselves. It feels like no one cares, and obviously, besides words, that no one will actually make an effort to show real true love.
Love is supposed to be so deep in our heart that our love for others means that we are willing to go without for them, or we are willing to give our best for our fallen friend, or we are willing to take steps to lessen their heavy burden. We sacrifice (we give a bit of ourselves) to those that we love.
We earn money with our time, so if we have a friend or family member that needs money then we give it to them, even a small amount is enough to brighten their day because they need money, any money. It may be just to buy something simple, but if we give it then that person thinks wow it came from your own pocket, it is a Love-Sacrifice.
We should never get into the habit of expecting gifts, money, or time off people, but it is so nice when we get someone’s genuine effort to help us. We all have some unhappy-periods in our life. Times when things are just a bit too much for us and we need a helping hand.
So what I am saying is that when people give to us we feel that we are worth something. If we ask 4 people for help and none reply or are positive about helping us it not only means less places to get help from but it means that they don’t care enough to make a showing of their love so much that they sacrifice for us.
If someone needs help it is kind to give some of our time to chat with them, or to give something to help, or to help lessen their troubles in some manner.
You know that when you feel that tug on your heart that says, “Do something!” but then you let your mind overtake the heart-felt-message and you only hear the logic of your mind saying, “Oh, you haven’t got time.” or there is only such and such dollars in the bank account, or “Someone else will help them, I have better things to do.” etc.
If you want a better world to live in then we must care. We must show love. We need to try our best to help those in need and to help people without wanting any rewards for our efforts. Life should be about people helping people. We do that and the world will be far more productive, healthy and fun.
The other thing that results from sharing and caring is that there will be less or no depression, and most if not all mental illness will disappear from the planet. People will believe in themselves and feel worthy, and people will love and believe in other people.
Love, active love, will change the world and bring back a better world to live in.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
8th of May 2014.