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One of the methods used by parents who try to constantly make their child-
In order to keep up appearances the parents must marry of their victims, and in steps the Minder, a fellow narcissist. A person who is in cahoots with the parents and will Mind the victim, keep the drug feed up, use hypnotic methods, gas lighting to ensure that the victim never gains courage or confidence, and to keep the victim ever grateful to their captor using what is well known today as The Stockholm Syndrome.
To The Flying Monkeys the victims suffering is from elsewhere, an outward source, and the parents use Blame Shifting so that the blame is deemed by others to come from somewhere else and not the parents and the Minder.
The victim becomes so dependent on the Minder (Probably a spouse) that the victim could read this, pity the victims elsewhere and have no clue that this is their own pitiful life experience.
Neighbours of the victim and Minder are “mentally conditioned” to believe that the victim has mental issues, and law the same, and if anyone has a clue of what is really going on that person is viciously attacked in a Character Assassination.
Munchausen syndrome by proxy is a mental illness and a form of child abuse.
The caretaker of a child, most often a mother, either makes up fake symptoms or causes real symptoms to make it look like the child is sick. –
Whats in it for the Minder. Free and constant sex, the constant feed of controlling someone as all narcissists desire, free to bully someone without anyone stopping them because all have been convinced of the victims mental illness coming from elsewhere, and a servant to obey their commands.
A reminder of this is the treatment of Brian Wilson of Beach Boys fame who was under the constant day to day care by the Therapist Eugene Landy (The Minder). Landy was already famous for treating people, he had a reputation for getting things done, good results, an education in mental health, a title as a therapist, but the lure of controlling someone with full access to the millionaires money drove the narcissistic mind of Landy to take control with drugs and Mind Control, Gaslighting and The Stockholm Syndrome.
To give you an idea of the effect of Landy on Brian was interviews of Brian Wilson saying how wonderful Landy is and how much Landy has helped him, but once away from Landy and off the submissive drugs and free from the onslaught of mental torment Brian was of a complete different view and was pleased to be rid of Landy.
People under the control of the Minder and Parents are completely unaware that they are being controlled until the drugs are removed and the narcissist taken away.
Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which a person or a group covertly sows seeds of doubt in a targeted individual or group, making them question their own memory, perception, or judgment. It may evoke changes in them such as cognitive dissonance or low self-
Instances can range from the denial by an abuser that previous abusive incidents occurred, to belittling the victim’s emotions and feelings, to the staging of bizarre events by the abuser with the intention of disorienting the victim. The goal of gaslighting is to gradually undermine the victim’s confidence in their own ability to distinguish truth from falsehood, right from wrong, or reality from delusion, thereby rendering the individual or group pathologically dependent on the gaslighter for their thinking and feelings.
The term originated from the British play Gas Light (1938), performed as Angel Street in the United States, and its 1940 and 1944 film adaptations (both titled Gaslight). The term has now been used in clinical psychological literature, as well as in political commentary and philosophy. –
When a narcissist is gaslighting their victim the narcissist is heavily into keeping up appearances so that they can keep up their narcissistic control over their victim (Child, spouse, etc), so those The Flying Monkeys and general public, especially those living in the same street are treated with a fake life of the narcissist and victim.
The public see an honourable forever suffering decent man/woman with his weak minded suffering wife/husband who is always needing his help, but in the home behind closed doors the victim is under constant abuse and control and does not question the person who she has been brainwashed into believing is her saviour, her love, her life.
With that kind of dedication from her he can’t fail in controlling her whole life.
He keeps her fit and healthy for his sexual pleasure, not so that she can gain confidence and fit back into the world. The narcissist is cold but an excellent actor or actress and plays the victim to perfection.
One of the worst assumptions of the victim is their belief that the person who controls them loves them, when the narcissist has no feelings of love or any real idea of what love is, because to them love is a weakness they want nothing to do with it, they prefer to control and own their victim/s, it is a guarantee of obedience.
The biggest enemy of the victim is not only the narcissists in control of them, it is also the Flying Monkeys who go all out to help, protect, sympathize, give money and time to, the narcissist/s.
It is this constant backup of the narcissists in the victims life that keeps the victim in love and support of their own captor, the narcissist, because The Flying Monkeys full and dedicated support of the narcissist that helps make the narcissist look like a victim, honourable and only there for the real victim.
If the Flying Monkeys start to question the narcissists behaviour then the narcissist will quick-
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
13th of April, 2021.