When people attempt character assassination and try to destroy your reputation because they are scared of you and your abilities, your honesty and goodness, they will talk very big behind your back.
“Always they talk big behind your back” – because behind your back you cannot protect yourself. Behind your back you are an easy victim, and can easily be destroyed without any real proof. All the titled person needs is their own opinion and the people will believe.
Like a magician they can conjure up all sorts of lies, fantasy evidence and mix it in with the facts. In doing this they make the lies look like truth.
Two things stand out for me when it comes to this sort of thing.
If the person has a title of some sort the people will listen to that person with the title eagerly. Like sheep they follow, like sheep they can also try to help destroy the honest person because they have been informed by the dishonest person that the honest person is bad etc.
A sneaky person working in the background in the shadows can really do some amazing damage to a person’s public character.
The other thing is that they only work in the shadows. They never have the courage to face you one-to-one. They won’t face us because they are scared that we will tell the truth and expose them for their lies and nasty attempts at character assassination.
I am constantly amazed at how a person’s education, material gain and/or title can convince them that this person is to be fully believed. We live in a time when those with a title, education and lots of material gain are often being exposed for being fakes and doing wrong.
The titled person has a far bigger chance of success if the person that they are trying to destroy has no title, very little material goods, and possibly has a limited education.
The key point here is that a dishonest person will never face you face-to-face in front of witnesses that they are trying to seduce with their tactics of character destruction.
I have found (because this has happened to me) that these back-stabbers will never attack you in public. Even on Facebook, they are cowards and they choose to slip out of the shadows to take a bite at your character and then slip back to cowardly safety in the shadows again, hoping to win and destroy, and hoping to never be caught.
But their work and life are an example of who and what they are, and wise people will understand and see through the different shades of grey that these snakes operate in.
When people attack your character the best thing to do is to just keep being the good person that you are. keep trying to help people. Keep following and having faith. The bad people will be exposed in the end, so while you are waiting get on with life as positively as you can.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
30th December 2014.
