I have been explaining since around 2009 that people, you and I, actually chose our future due to the choices that we made and the things that we did. We help change our children’s futures by influencing them with what we did and what we want for them.

Its easy to argue this with me due to Atheism telling you that everything is random, coincidences, and unplanned.

Remember the parties that you went to as a teenager? The causal drug abuse that may have led to stronger drugs. The alcohol consumption at those parties. The casual sex, many partners in bed and in relationships, and so on, all of that was when you chose the path that you are on today.

Each year. each decade, you can change your future. But what most people do is party up large, do all the foolish stuff as a teenager, then randomly hit their twenties taking whatever comes their way that tickles their fancy and some will settle down marrying the person who they think is the one, and divorcing 10-20 years later, and then doing it all again.

When our planning for life has no common sense or logic to it, then what happens is truly unplanned and random, but that lack of planning and the randomness of our years has nothing to do with God, Atheism, fate, luck or whatever religion you choose, it is simply because as a teenager you chose to do all the things that would ruin your future, and you made many foolish friends of the same nature, and pridefully you became proud of the parties’s causal sex, drug abuse, and alcohol consumption – and if a person is proud of being foolish they refuse to admit it was all a bad mistake and change their future path – they simply get a job, marry someone, and struggle, probably still abusing drugs, alcohol, their spouse, sex and so on.

When a person wants to join NASA he or she gets straight into some serious study, thus a path was chosen, and they refuse drugs, alcohol, parties because the dream is so deep within, and once they get it they are on a high salary a part of what they dreamed that they would be a part of.

If we had that same dedication to love, marriage, finding the right life, path, spouse, and actually planned from say around 12 years old onwards, we would be living as they did hundreds of years ago, in forever marriages and making their dream their reality.

Why is this happening the way it is these days?
Because your parents and their parents got caught up in the very loose immoral immature society that was born mostly from the 1960’s onwards where dreams changed, the human race got more caught up in the working system, free casual sex, LSD, marijuana, porn, in other words all the things that were very frowned on previously were now accepted as fun, cool, enjoyable, and natural.

In becoming loose-in-mind people became loose in their life planning and live just for the day. Sadly this was passed on to their children, and the dream of a happy marriage, family, love, compassion, and being a good decent worthy soul in society vanished for dog-eat-dog and everyone for him or herself.
Seems today many think that having an experience is living the dream while being miserable between the experiences.

Because of this large mind-shift in the average modern human beings they lost the desire to plan, to actually decide what they wanted in the big picture for their future.

When the masses don’t teach their children that the nuclear family unit is actually living the dream, the world loses touch not only with the dream, but also with reality, and people will start telling you that indecent is decent, immoral is moral, unjust is just, and bad people are good people and good people are attacked for being good people, and people in high places that are well “educated” will tell you that men can have babies and that there are more than 2 genders and so on.

In your teenage years you were supposed to choose a partner for life, settle down, have good natural clean decent fun, help your children, influence them on what is good decent and natural (not party or drink with them), and boys would be taught by their fathers to be men, and girls taught to be women, both sexes taught to be their own gender (so society does not confuse them).

This is a short explanation of how you were supposed to choose your future back in your teens, and how you are supposed to teach your children to choose as young adults, and how you should have been grown up in Maturity and how you should be growing your children up in Maturity – you see, Maturity, logic, common sense are far more important than any other form of education.

You have the choice of looking at your life right now and the people nearest to you and saying, “This is not how I want my future to be and I want this to end!” and then make the decisive moves to change your life to how you want it to be.

This is your life, your future, you do get a voice in your life, and you are very well within your own right to step up your game and change your life in a complete turnaround should you want to do so.

Are you happy with your life those around you? Has life/God/The Universe shown you another way, have you imagined another way, have you desired another way and dreamed of it – well if others can have their dream you sure can as well.

You must understand that you are the only one to change your life to how you want it to be. But if you act as you carelessly did as a teenager, or allow other people who have failed you for years to keep making your choices for you, you will be where you are today in ten years time, just like you were like this ten years ago.

People like me can help you, influence you, open your mind up to the wonderful possibilities before you, but only you can make it happen for you.