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During my life many people gave me their opinion of me, and much was negative causing me to feel that I was an unworthy human being, that I was defective, not good enough, and I came to feel unconfident and not feeling worthy I would let opportunities pass me by as I struggled to cope in a world that I felt didn't like me.

The reality is that I had assumed that other people were qualified to put me down, judge and push me around (bullying).

When we realize that other people are speaking from their own perspective, their own opinions, hurts, fears, judgments, and that it does not mean that they are right about you in any way, because what they are saying to you or about you is just a reflection of who they are, not of who you are.

If you were to dig deeper you would find as many or even many more flaws in that other person's character.
If you grow up in a home or environment where there are many toxic, dysfunctional, unhealed people they can all gang up on you because you are not like them and they sense it, so they attack your confidence, bring you down, and stop you from blooming in your natural way to be the wonderful person who you were born to be.

Please try not to be bitter because this will do you more harm than good, but do try to understand that many humans of all ages, titles, education, and in business, are carrying around with them all day hurts, mental illness, dysfunction, anxieties, fears, etc and because of this they tend to react negatively towards people.

By knowing this you can understand that their issues is how they are judging you (not because they know any better than you), also it can tell you of some of what is going on in their own lives.
For example he or she could be a bully and you knowing this having been their target to push around, you realize that what they are saying to you is a sign of their past, what is going on in their life, and how they have turned out from how people have bullied them. The bully is the one who has the issues and who needs help, not you.

If you remain calm, mature, then what they say will not hurt you, and you will feel sorry for them and understand that they have issues that they have not even realized that they have.

Remember, don’t let them get you down, they are just showing you and the world that they have problems.

Often it is them that judge so harshly that need more help in life than you.

What We See in Others is a Reflection of Ourselves!

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